OK feeling a little left out

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
OK feeling a little left out
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Tue, 06-26-2007 - 3:18pm

and maybe like a pathetic looser. I haven't had a date in months. Met someone a week and a half ago when I was out with some friends. He asked for my number but never called.

Trying the OLD thing again but don't have anything close to a decent picture and haven't been able to get any of my friends to take some. So I posted a profile without a picture. I know I will get very few if any hits that way but thought what could it hurt. I have no problem talking to someone without a picture so maybe someone will bite anyway. I do have a picture of me and a girlfriend that I can send on if I need to but don't want to post pictures with others as my main photo. Still not a great photo but I say that up front. I'm certainly not ugly, I'm not fat, no wart in the middle of my nose, not deformities, I've had men tell me I'm beautiful. I have a decent figure (although I'd like to loose a few I'm not really even overweight I don't think).

Just having a pity party. I know I haven't posted much but I guess that is because I haven't had anything really to post. I have been really getting out more in the past month or so. Just no one biting. Maybe it is the hot weather.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 06-26-2007 - 4:27pm

Sweetie, you need some retail therapy. You could go clothes shopping and get the lady to take your picture while you try on great outfits. You don't need to buy them. And if you don't have a digital camera you can use a film one - even if it is instant - and get Walmart to give you the photos online to use.

You do have to have good pix to gather OLD responses. There is just no other way - men are VERY visual. And it is a fun process!!

Do what it takes to get yourself happy again. We are glad you wrote us - and hope you keep on giving your input!!