I wouldn't worry too much yet. If you like him that is great, take one day at a time. I would however not get intimate physically until you've had the exclusive talk. But that is just me...and during that talk you can say that you no longer are looking online and ask again if he is. If you move forward with him, I would reiterate (in the future) how important honesty is to you.
I'd let it go for now- he's probably only curious-
Waaaay too early to worry about ownership on the man!!! He can do whatever he wants, and if he's still online, then he's still online. YOU had to get online too, didn't you- to see that HE'D been on recently??? So do you think he's sitting around wondering why you are still active online when you're "supposedly dating"??? I seriously don't think so!!!!
No, the relationship is too new to be putting that kind of ownership pressure on anyone. Let him be! I also think that you could still BROWSE and be online, on those dating sites- even if you aren't a paying member. Maybe he was just mentioning it to you, because once the membership expires, he can't use THEIR email system to communicate anymore.
~shrimpy, passing out some mind-numbing cyber-chocolate to slow the over-thinking
The last guy I went out with was like that...every phone call or voicemail began with "hello beautiful", I didn't feel so special though when he answered the phone that way on a date to talk to his "neice"...also didn't feel so special when he used my home computer to check out other girls profiles online...
I think the relationship is still very, very new.
I wouldn't worry too much yet. If you like him that is great, take one day at a time. I would however not get intimate physically until you've had the exclusive talk. But that is just me...and during that talk you can say that you no longer are looking online and ask again if he is. If you move forward with him, I would reiterate (in the future) how important honesty is to you.
I'd let it go for now- he's probably only curious-
Isn't it possible to be active and an unpaid member?
April
Thanks guys!
Oh yes - *if* we ever get to the intimacy stage that is something we WILL discuss beforehand.
Waaaay too early to worry about ownership on the man!!! He can do whatever he wants, and if he's still online, then he's still online. YOU had to get online too, didn't you- to see that HE'D been on recently??? So do you think he's sitting around wondering why you are still active online when you're "supposedly dating"??? I seriously don't think so!!!!
No, the relationship is too new to be putting that kind of ownership pressure on anyone. Let him be! I also think that you could still BROWSE and be online, on those dating sites- even if you aren't a paying member. Maybe he was just mentioning it to you, because once the membership expires, he can't use THEIR email system to communicate anymore.
~shrimpy, passing out some mind-numbing cyber-chocolate to slow the over-thinking
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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LOL - ITA Shrimpy.
The last guy I went out with was like that...every phone call or voicemail began with "hello beautiful", I didn't feel so special though when he answered the phone that way on a date to talk to his "neice"...also didn't feel so special when he used my home computer to check out other girls profiles online...
April