ok, now i have to ask. :)

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ok, now i have to ask. :)
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Mon, 12-06-2004 - 2:15pm
I have to ask now...am I the only caucasian woman on the bb that prefers men of color/ethnicity?
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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 2:46pm

I can't really say, I've only known 2 hispanic men and my exh was nothing to brag about - obviously. The other hispanic man was short, but packed the biggest I've ever seen. So, I can't really answer.

LOL Marilyn

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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 2:52pm

You know, I really haven't been with very many men, I believe I counted 6 total. My wonderful Hubby is by far the best in everything. We are so compatible when it comes to our sexual taste, habits, etc. Now, he's been with more then several women and he says I'm the best he's ever been - and yes, he's completely serious about that - and I'm not trying to toot my own horn, but I think I'm pretty good too. LOL

Sometimes I wish I had the guts to have experimented more, but I'm glad I didn't.

But, no matter what no one has compared to my Hubby and I'm glad it has worked out this way.

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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 2:56pm

I've found that short men, have short man syndrome. They have this everybody is after me, I need to be in control, always scared mentality. I didn't want to be a part of that anymore. It wasn't afterwards that I noticed that I was really turned off by it all. So, I definitely wanted a strong personality in a man, not a whimpy, whiney, undecisive personality. My ex-h is a feminine man at that, and yuk, I can't even look his way when he dresses like that. I'm just so happy that I gave myself the time to think about what I wanted and needed from a man. By writing it down, I got exactly what I was looking for.

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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 2:56pm
so much for stereotypes eh?
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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 4:33pm

LOL, no…I only “sampled” about 4 out of that “research” group. But results were pretty consistent! Prior to that time period my small research sample group yielded similar results. Short – not packed. Tall- packed. LOL

I have yet to meet a short packed man. Ladies? Anyone know of one? = )

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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 4:40pm
What about the car correlation? Is there any truth to it? That they are trying to compensate for the size of their package by having an expensive, big or sporty car?
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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 4:42pm
yep, the guy I see now. He's not tall...5'8" maybe...small hands, small feet...biggest
'ehm' I've run across...
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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 4:46pm

I can't believe we're having this conversation on a tuesday. We should be at happy hour on Friday with a couple of margaritas in us....LOL

Hmmm...actually, the bigger guys I've known have driven SUV's and the smaller ones had crappy old cars. I think a big car just implies MONEY!

what's the biggest package anyone has seen?

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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 4:53pm

ooh ooh - raising hand...pick me pick me! 9.5 inches. Can anyone top that? LOL

Actually, it was kind of painful. TOO much. I have experienced from 5" to 9.5". For me personally, 7 to 7.5 is perfect. But it's not all about length either. Thickness counts!

You're right, i've got to stop talking about this now... hee!

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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 4:55pm

Ooooh, can I jump in....

Exh bought himself a nice, expensive looking black car. I definitely felt to compensate for many things, especially the family man image.

The other spanish man, I swear his was just way tooo big, didn't get any pleasure from it, drove around in an SUV. The older guy, had a sporty car, he was okay. The biracial guy had jeep. He was also okay. There was a black guy who was no bigger then my pinky and he had no car...LOL. There was also another black guy and he had no car either. Those last 2 though were when I just got out of high school. Also, my booty call I think breaks the rule of big guy big packer. He was a big guy little pecker lol lmao and he had a big a$$ truck and likes big trucks.

Okay, I'm having too much fun with this topic.

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