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OK West and Ali...We want Scoopage
| Mon, 06-16-2008 - 6:54pm |
Alison- As soon as you come up for air we want an update on you and S!!
And West--- I know you are one busy mom coming back from camping. You probably haven't even had time to clean the tent and put it away. But when you get settled in let us know how things are with Karateman. Did you come home to some nice messges? Do tell!
~Pacific~

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Haha- what is this, the Hot Seat???
Well,
so I'm just enjoying the ride right now (no pun intended LOL!)
ROTFLOL!
so I'm just enjoying the ride right now (no pun intended LOL!) Oh REALLY! LMAO
Yes, the hot seat, Spanish Inquisition...we will get it out of you eventually ;o)
I'm glad you have S there keeping you "company". And YOU said you took this afternoon off for the WEATHER. LOL!
Aye - I was just coming on to say I dumped him. Sorry to disappoint all with this news but being on vacation and taking all of the pictures I love just got some conversation going and I feel he is not a match. He is a nice guy - but not for me. A lot of things just put me off and I feel he is too different and not what I want. For one thing, as you all know by now, I am VERY active and adventurous - I had so much fun hiking 5 miles in snow and slush - and staying in a tent and listening to a bear at 2AM. And while I don't expect someone other than my 12yo son to do this kind of thing, I just don't think I can be happy with someone who has only camped here in this state and sort of likes it that way. I want to travel the world. I also don't think he can keep up with me mentally or physically. And then there was sort of a mention of ED and that is why his wife cheated and that threw me over the edge.
So, I am a free woman as we speak. I am NOT going back online, though. I think I have to work harder at doing more of what I love and getting out of the house. More biking, swimming, running, training for my next Ironman and helping with my son's football. I do not feel in a rush.
Last night I had a slumber party in my room - the 2 dogs, my son and a lot of cheese and crackers which were shared - and I like it that way.
You gave him the boot already?
if it's not right, it's not right - and you can't pretend that it is
Absolutely!
~s~
Pushing for sex?
Well, I gotta say you always give a guy a good try. Plenty of time to see if once you get past the first impression good behavior whether or not the guy has potential.
Now no worries about those impending tattoos!
QB
That was another thing.
Yes - he was nice enough - but I fear the ED/wife cheating thing plus some issues about class (he wants to get 2 more tattoos and has friends that drink and smoke pot and I did not like his clothes plus I don't value his life decisions) PLUS I could tell that he was getting stretched by my photos and stories of camping and hiking. I don't think he has known anyone who loves to use a digital camera as much as me (I can email the pic link to those I know here who respond) or to hike or camp with bears or even go so far as Wyoming never mind Switzerland.
IT is not so much that I am picky - I know I am gifted and athletic and very smart and have a lot of energy - so I know I am not an easy match - but the pond has really crappy choices and when you are trying to get to know someone cold - like from an OLD type scenario - I believe it has a high failure rate.
And I would rather be honest about my freakout/bad feeling than waste a lot of time to make it work.
And I really would like to be happily married to the right person someday - not just have a boyfriend or just be married - and I feel I know what it really takes for that and for me to be happy ever after. I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. Alone right now is just that good.
And his feeble attempt at suggesting sex and helping him with the ED thing when I was tired from the trip made me want to choke him - that is when the freakout thing went.
(edited to fix my bad grammar - LOL!!)
Edited 6/16/2008 8:55 pm ET by cl-west1745
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