Okay...so now I am getting worried
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Okay...so now I am getting worried
| Fri, 05-16-2008 - 10:03am |
I am trying to have faith that he is just busy with school and lackluster in everything else but I am starting to doubt that (maybe my own insecurities?!?!)...

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Thanks--I'm really just worried because he went from communicating in some form every day to communicating every couple of days to nothing...I understand that there is a major work load and he could be trying to be polite b/c he knows that I am studying for the lsat
April
Acks - I know how you feel - the whole 'what is happening and why isn't he calling' routine in the beginning - it is enough to drive anyone over the edge - LOL!! Are you two exclusive? If not maybe keep dating and see what happens - seek to find one who really wants and is able to call rather than get stuck on just him especially since his life is not that settled (being in school and all). But it surely did have a good start so I pray this has been a tough week with exams/papers?
But I see nothing wrong with your text - that way you don't stay in the dark with him.
How are your studies going?
We haven't had the exclusive talk.
April
things with me have been good but busy. I'm still working and going to school so I don't have much free time to be online. This semester though is great because I have english (easy for me) and typing (also easy for me) and computers in both classes (yay!) so I'll be on the boards a lot more in the next 6 weeks. Kurt is doing well, he'll be 4 in July and is growing up so fast! I'm still seeing B although he's been getting on my nerves a bit lately (more about that in another post maybe) but overall happy with him. That's about it for me. Thanks for asking. =-)
Hey April!
I think your text was fine! If he is just busy, then he will contact you with a reply..
If he seems to be distancing, and that is just an IF, then as hard as this may seem- do not take it personally. A guy going to law school may very well have not even realized just how life consuming his studies are. Sometimes in the midst of working hard in work or school people reaize they are more focused on that then on a committed relationship. So, if that is the case and he ghosts, just remember that you are wonderful and it has nothing to do with you!
I'm hoping things work out between you two and perhaps you get a nice date this weekend! Keep us posted....
Thanks--I am trying to stay postitive.
April
Yes, my friend...One day at a Time! That philosophy saves my sanity as it does so many here! And it works :o)
The red convertable car dream- my thought is that it could represent how lawstudent is "drivin". Red symbolizes high emotion. Subconsciously you may be aware of
BTW- and in no way do I want to hi-jack your thread, but Blue Eyes had a dream last night-
There was an electric fence set up keeping people out of a dry river bed. He was curious about a little city being built inside the dry river so he tried to look in there, and he fell into the river bed somehow without getting shocked by the fence. Then he thought he better get out, but did not know how to without getting zapped. A friend helped him get out eventually.
Now in real life, just two night ago I put my foot down about an issue. His ex FWB was starting to call him again, with lame excuses as to why she needed to talk to him. He admitted that she was trying to wedge her way into his life again..he could feel it. So we both agreed- no more calls from her, he will tell her not to call him again. Ending the friendship once and for all.
So maybe the dream tells him not to "go there" anymore with her and her drama. It will only get him into danger and trouble! Even though I know he has no feelings for her, he admitted that he used to get a "kick" out off her drama life..even though I suspect she makes most of it up!
Do you dream often?? I have not been able to remember too many of my own lately.
I think my sub-conscious is in line with my conscious mind there!
April
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