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| Sun, 08-03-2008 - 5:53pm |
I get an email today from someone who has been reading my online ad for apparently a while. He said I needed to get with the 21st century and that I am nothing more than a prostitute! Because in my revised profile I say that if you can not afford to PAY FOR A DATE you should not ask me out! And this makes me a prostitute? What is wrong with men these days? Ugh ugh ugh! I was shocked and offended. And he had sent it under a name I did not know but he clearly had written me because he had back ground info on me such as I do not have men to my home etc. So...what a nut! He said he was going to try to get my profile removed from POF that I am not fit to date...I figure I must have rubbed him wrong and turned him down or something to have him take it that seriously! UGh

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My rule-of-thumb is to put only positive, what I want things on my profile and look for the same in the woman's profile.
Yeah but I dont think she was asking us to critique her profile. I think she was just venting about the offensive email she received in regards to it. Regardless of whats in her profile, if men see something they dont like they have no right to harrass her about it. I think POF's terms of use prevent that.
Well, I'm curious as can be.
I guess I will go home and rewrite my profile. I kept adding in info to try to weed out all the nuts I get. Maybe its just the POF site to begin with? I am sure a pay site might be better but I do not have the money right now to do that! Thanks for the input
I agree that anything negative should be left out of the profile. Put your best positive aspects and thoughts forward, I say!
But I wonder if it could be something as lame as SEMANTICS that set the jerk guy off on his tirade? Maybe it's something as simple as the difference between "pay for
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Put it here and we will help!! Do you have good pix up? A close up shot of your face and you in something dressy - that is the ticket.
It could be a combo of age, POF and location. I never had luck with POF - I mean the ones on there were always REALLY bad for me. Match.com was best for the number of good ones overall. Maybe you can try to get their 7 day offer or something to see if you like it?
Brilliant, Shrimps.
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