OMG!! BREATHE, BREATHE. paper bag.

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OMG!! BREATHE, BREATHE. paper bag.
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 4:32pm
hyper ventilation! so there is this superrrrrrrrrrrrrr HOT HOT guy that works at my old company. I mean ladies, he is to die for HOT. SUPER NICE! SUPER INTELLIGENT and SUPER NEWLY DIVORCED. Now get this, his daughter goes in the same class as my daughter Nina. So since I'm home room mom, we tend to have a good repor with our parents. So I have always had a great repor with him, but also with his wife and his wife and him get along great. So... ok, I thought or I knew he was dating someone, so I just always made eye contact but stayed away. He may or may have not have thought that I was dating someone, but basically we both worked for the same company so that was frowned upon. WELLL, I put myself on OLD today and GUESS, who is on it?? HIM!!!!!!!!!!
I freaking can't believe it. So I, a little embarrassed, wasn't sure if I should ignore and hope he doesn't review my profile after I read his, or just say hi. So I opted for the Hi. I was honest and told him I wasn't sure if I should ignore him, but then thought I'd at least say Hi. Then I asked him about a picture that I really was curious about what it was and where it was taken. Hmmmmmmmmmm, maybe????? He'll probably respond, but I wonder if I'll get a date out of him. WE no longer work together. It's ok if I don't, but it would be kind of cool if I did. I've always kind of thought we had an attraction thing going, but I might have imagined it too out of pure dreamy land. The man is hotter then George Clooney or Mr. McDreamy combined. The great thing is, his pictures are awful, so he isn't very photogenic. On the other hand, I would be going out with another Dad in my daughters class. OH well, I say wait and see if he even responds.
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 4:37pm
Good grief chickie, chill, lol.
 
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 4:43pm

Whoo hoo!! Hot, AND potentially single? I'm glad you went for it and emailed. Hey, why not? Now I can't wait to get your update. Can you tell when someone has logged onto their page and checked for messages (does it say 'last logged on__')?


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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 8:34pm
LOL, ok, I chilled a bit. Yes, he's logged on already and was online. He must have read my email, but I'm not quite sure he put my profile and pic together. However so... I haven't heard back from him yet. LOL. OH well. It was a friendly hello and no harm meant. Too funny tho. After reading his likes and dislikes later, I noticed he doesn't want anyone with children. Hmmm, I find that sad, but oh well, his perogative. I just wouldn't be dating someone that didn't want my kids, but only wanted me to accept theirs. To each their own tho.
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Thu, 09-11-2008 - 8:37pm
He doesn't want someone with kids?
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Fri, 09-12-2008 - 8:01am

Cool beans. I say go out with him. He sounds too good to pass up. You talked a lot about looks but hows his personality? Will he mesh with you well?


I've ran into people I know on online dating sites. One was a pilot I work with. He's a cutie and a sweetheart and a good pilot. I flew with him once (prior to seeing him online). He flies acrobatic aircraft. It was like an airborne rollercoaster. So cool. But once I saw him online I didnt contact him.


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Fri, 09-12-2008 - 10:43am

He didn't respond, but that's ok. He might still not have put two and two together with who I am. As for him asking me out, after a lot more thought then I should have given it, I'd say no now, because I don't want to date anyone that doesn't want another persons children in their lives. He seems selfish and somehow it makes sense what his x wife commented on. His lifestyle is more about him and I bet you he puts his single life above all else. I am fine with saying hi at work and school, but better off leaving all else alone. :)

I am still more in grocery man mode anyways.