OMG: Email from my Heartbreaker

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2008
OMG: Email from my Heartbreaker
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Thu, 09-04-2008 - 1:44pm

This is the man that brought me to this msg board. I saw the email and I must admit that I was hoping and praying that the email said I made a mistake you're so amazing but it didn't, and I'm not sure how to respond, or if I even should. Still with every man I've dated since my split he is the one that everything seemed so perfect with.


So here's the email... jeeze!


The way things ended have been weighing on my mind.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:17am

Maybe he said the ‘I’m not the man for you comment’ expecting to give you some closure that he thought you needed, but when you sent that e-mail, and were together, he realized that it might be worth a shot…


I sounds like he needed some time to work on himself the way we encourage everyone here to do.


Take it slow, and see what happens.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:24am

I just sent him this email.. because this is honestly how I feel about it all.. plus this is keeping us from jumping back into things to quickly:


I just wanted to let you know that I think I may need some time to process last night. So, its a good thing that I'll be working the next 6 days. I won't be ignoring or avoiding you.. just processing it all in. Right now I don't feel over emotional or anything.. I just have a content feeling.. which is good.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:40am

Wow what an evening is right!!!

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2002
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 12:08pm

when you said you went out with him... my heart skipped a beat. Good for you for keeping your emotions in check. I'm sooo glad you got closure.


see, it wasn't you. I think we can all get closure from our ghoster story... it usually isn't US. there's no strategy involved, no game to play... dating is a risk and each one of us needs to keep taking that risk.


looking forward to seeing how this goes.


Loonybunny

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 12:43pm

Good, good, good for you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 8:31pm
That's the thing about dating.

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