OMG, i am freaking out - Calm me down ..

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Registered: 03-15-2004
OMG, i am freaking out - Calm me down ..
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Fri, 10-26-2007 - 1:02pm

please. I was just awakened by a VM from X. FURIOUS, saying (w/ expletives) how "screwed I am, get my atty ready", etc. He said "I finally talked to that doctor & I have an appt to see him next Thurs, but YOU ARE SCREWED, He said he NEVER EVER said to hold visitation - And you have been telling him I am abusing Averey, you are in SO MUCH TROUBLE ..."


Ok - so, yes, i immedietly just called the doc & left a VM to please call me - w/o trying to sound hysterical. Then i went back to my documentation. I stopped visitation on Monday the Oct 1st & had left the psyc a voice mail to call me. He called back on Wed Oct 3rd. I told him everything going on & I said "I havent been allowing him visitation, but its not court ordered". HIS EXACT WORDS were: "I would continue to not allow him visitation at this point - that will force his hand, either he will take you to court & he will be called on his contempt charges that he never came to see me, or, he will make an appt & come see me".

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 3:09pm

Yes, i trust his driving. But in reality - he is only 1 mile from me & he is literally right on the route to work - so i drop her on my way & pick her up. For dd's sake, the stress level is SO much better if he isnt here. The one time he did come, it was horrible. He just cannot handle seeing "his house".

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Tue, 10-30-2007 - 3:12pm

Nope. Not one word. & dd hasnt asked to call him ... the last time she did was Friday eve when we were away, visiting my brother. I didnt even know she called him (she doesnt have to ASK me, but usually she does). But all of a sudden she walked into the living room with the phone, siad "Ok, bye Daddy, I love you too" & hung up. Then walked over to my brothers baby & said "Tripp, my Daddy said to give you a hug & a kiss for him".


WEIRD. Yes, weird. But apparently he was tyring to be nice to her on the phone. At least.

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Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 10-30-2007 - 3:41pm

OH - you are right that you don't want him coming there for those reasons. And if he is only 1 mile and on the way that is very good.

I think the schedule is the ticket. Strict adherence!! Very good idea!!

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