omg.... the "L" word

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omg.... the "L" word
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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 1:50am

I'm still in shock honestly. MM used the "L" word.


We had a great day today! I got a sitter from 2pm - 12am so that he and i wouldn't feel rushed, could start the day early and do whatever we wanted.


We decided to eat lunch (i knew food would be the main event ... okay second main event, but i'll get to that later...lol). We had a nice time talking at lunch and sharing more about ourselves. Then we went to blockbuster to rent a movie. Then to the liquor store to browse and buy some Tuaca. yummy.


He had another idea to cook dinner but since we ate a big lunch... dinner wasn't on my mind really...


We watched "Step Brothers"... i'm a huge Wil Farrell fan. Funny movie. Felt great sitting on the couch snuggling. . Then after the movie we went upstairs for nakie time!!! Hot stuff! It was still early too. about 8 pm. We just laid there and he brought up "what am i looking for in a relationship" conversation. He said "i know you only think one day at a time but have you thought about what you are looking for long term". wow.... i felt great that he was bringing up the topic... on his own.


Unfortunately, i didn't really have an answer. i don't know what long term looks like still... i know that i like where things are going between him and me but i couldn't really answer his question. So, he went on to say that after our conversation on backrub night about "becoming emotionally attached" he thought long about not wanting to hurt my feelings. started thinking long term. That's when i mentioned the "we made it past short term and that's

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 2:28am
Wow girl CONGRATS!!!
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Registered: 10-19-2008
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 8:24am

Loony, how old is MM?

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Registered: 11-22-2006
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 9:14am
CONGRATS! Now THAT'S more like it!!! I am so glad he opened up!
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 10:17am
I couldn't read fast enough to see your reply to him. Sounds like some great nakie time on top of that! You are a very smart lady taking it one day at a time.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 10:32am

Wow, Loony!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 6:49pm

lots of stuff are going thru my mind still... I feel very relieved and much more stable about things than last week.. what a coincedence that i chose "healing" right before MM decided to open up. (That just goes to show, God works on the inside before working on the outside. AND even when

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Registered: 09-01-2006
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 9:02pm
Wow Loony - what a difference a few days make!
Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 7:37am

Wow. I had a feeling things were going this way for you. I too had an abusive relationship. There has to be some good books out there on what to do now that we are in non abusive relationships. I havent found any but I am sure there are some. The past makes the future scary. Enjoy your cloud nine. Its a good place to be.


Laurie

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Registered: 07-15-2008
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 5:48pm
Yay Looney!!!

JH

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Registered: 12-06-1998
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 6:26pm
Loony this is just AWESOME news! How exciting. You really deserve it.
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