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OMG new EH prospect.... cute too.
| Sun, 06-01-2008 - 9:16pm |
A new guy requested fast track tonight.... how long should i wait before emailing back... i want to right now but i think he just posted it an hour ago... and i dont' want to look too eager.
Here's what he said...
I just signed into eharmony when i was matched with you and when i went through your profile it was just exactly what i wanted in a woman.I am

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Personally I think 2 hours away is too far - but that is for you to decide.
Since you have a lot of prospects be picky!! Everything sounds very good so far - and quality guys.
Have you picked out some first date outfits? LOL!! Can't wait to get the stories!!
No clue what i would wear.. especially for split personality guy.. i guess i would have to ask in advance which personality he was expecting...lol... but actually, i think i'm the same inside.. just adaptive to the situation.... I haven't heard back from him yet.... and i'm waiting anxiously too. My foot hasn't healed well enough for high heals yet....
sent a reply email to maryland guy.... he's gotten very personal... and revealed some very personal stuff about him and his divorce, etc.. i hope he lighten's up... he did also give me his phone number.. maybe i should call, that way i can get a better sense of his personality.
but let's not forget i'm expecting a call from Real Estate guy tonight, too.
Believe it or not, i'm still bored!!! Must be a funk i'm in.... and a guy who's 2 hrs away will be difficult to date wouldn't it. *sigh* Actually, i think i'm bored because of all the cancelled plans last week. Thursday was disappointing. Friday, too. I went to the karaoke meetup group but the place was a dive (even for me) and only one other person from the group was there... Saturday, I had a great time at the pool with the children. I even got a tan and that's a first for me. But Sunday, was another disappointment because i didn't go to the qualifying round with Girl Power Friend. She canceled on me... This morning, i had a very full morning, i took the girls to the YMCA. I'm busy, but feel like there's a void inside.. and that's not like me but that's how i feel.
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"sent a reply email to maryland guy.... he's gotten very personal... and revealed some very personal stuff about him and his divorce, etc."
I would delete him based on that - because that is not something appropriate to say to someone you haven't met yet and could mean he doesn't make good decisions and is not over the divorce - is looking for sexual favors to heal himself. At least that is the way I read it - but you know me - I am so pragmatic and critical!! Especially for OLD - but of course you have to decide. I bet a phone call would back that theory up!
And I know what you mean about disappointed - just hang in there - it is a long and tedious process. But you want to do it well so you don't have to do it again!! LOL!!
Glad to hear you had fun in the pool and got a tan.
I sensed that he's not over the divorce too.... he talked about how excutiatingly painful it was and that was 5 years ago..... maybe as a set up for how he's overcome tough times? it's a stretch but maybe...lol...
i didn't go into my divorce, but i guess i revealed some personal info about my move.... i guess it's something i'm proud of and grateful for... how i took that leap of faith a took a new job.... i think i wrote a lot too but it was all positive stuff....
Loonybunny
ps Can't wait for my tax rebate.. woohoo.
Well your move is something VERY GOOD - that is excellent to share - it shows how you got a new job that is better and you were able to move you and your family for a better opportunity. It is very positive - and shows you are moving on in your life in a good way. Also highlights your creative talent!! :-)
But going on and on about the pain of a divorce - sounds like he needs to go to the shrink - not on a date. I don't have mercy on him - because he should be asking you about you and telling you something fun about himself to attract you and impress you. How about if we put him on an IV and set him in front of the TV for a while? LOL!! Or let him be someone else's problem?
wasn't sure if should start a new thread or what..EH is getting hard to keep up with...lol
Heard back from both Pierce and Maryland Guy
So i had this strange thought.. what if "Pierce" doesn't even speak english and just goes to a translate website... his wording was backwards in some places....and just odd
This is all good - raining men - keep us posted! Sounds like you are doing well and going through the process.
I guess you would find out about Pierre for sure if you spoke to him on the phone. I have worked with a lot of people who have English as their second language and they do tend to reverse the order of words. I guess I am okay with that as long as they are legal/stable/working here.
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