OMG you guys. S-T-R-E-S-S! (Taz)

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OMG you guys. S-T-R-E-S-S! (Taz)
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Mon, 05-05-2008 - 10:54pm

Holy Moly - he totally TOTALLY lost it tonite.


So much for the progress he APPEARED to be making. We had the scheduled family meeting w/ the doc today. He was fine at 1st, then Ave asked me to give him the pics from the dance of them. They were in a full pack of pics in my purse - i gladly pulled them out & sifted thru for a second, pulling out the 2 pics of them. He immedietly INSISTED on seeing all the other pics. Asking, accusing, what they were, why i was "sneakily hiding them", etc etc. He began to REALLY escalate about it as I refused to show him them (they happened to be family portraits of Ave & I with the dogs, which i wouldnt ever WANT to show him, b/c it would 1. break his heart & 2. throw him over the edge). At one point while he was arguing with me to see them, Ave picked up his phone to see it & he SCREAMED (i mean SO loudly) "Put the Fing thing DOWN NOW!"

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 10:45am

OMG--((((HUGS)))) to you and Ave--That poor thing-I can't even come close to imagining what is going through her head!

April

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 11:08am

Just when you think it's safe to "trust" them to be "normal" they never fail to disappoint, huh?

Cat
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Tue, 05-06-2008 - 11:31am

Oh Rebecca....I am so sorry that you and Ave have to keep going through all of this. I do agree with the others, I am VERY glad that this time it occurred in front of the doctor.

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 12:27pm

Oh Rebecca.

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Registered: 04-14-2008
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 1:20pm

So sorry to hear this. I know just what you are going through.


Just a suggestion:


Ask the doctor and your attorney

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 2:21pm

I wonder, if he hadn't had this outburst, if the psych might have said, "welll... let's give him a chance" and opened up the doors for visitation.


As it is, they should be locked up tight.


It's terrible - and totally unnecessary - for you and Avery to be put through this.

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 7:06pm

I cannot add anything to the fabulous wisdom and words from the rest of this awesome group, but just wanted to add my thoughts and empathies with you and Ave.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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