OMG you guys. S-T-R-E-S-S! (Taz)
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| Mon, 05-05-2008 - 10:54pm |
Holy Moly - he totally TOTALLY lost it tonite.
So much for the progress he APPEARED to be making. We had the scheduled family meeting w/ the doc today. He was fine at 1st, then Ave asked me to give him the pics from the dance of them. They were in a full pack of pics in my purse - i gladly pulled them out & sifted thru for a second, pulling out the 2 pics of them. He immedietly INSISTED on seeing all the other pics. Asking, accusing, what they were, why i was "sneakily hiding them", etc etc. He began to REALLY escalate about it as I refused to show him them (they happened to be family portraits of Ave & I with the dogs, which i wouldnt ever WANT to show him, b/c it would 1. break his heart & 2. throw him over the edge). At one point while he was arguing with me to see them, Ave picked up his phone to see it & he SCREAMED (i mean SO loudly) "Put the Fing thing DOWN NOW!"


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OMG--((((HUGS)))) to you and Ave--That poor thing-I can't even come close to imagining what is going through her head!
April
Just when you think it's safe to "trust" them to be "normal" they never fail to disappoint, huh?
Oh Rebecca....I am so sorry that you and Ave have to keep going through all of this. I do agree with the others, I am VERY glad that this time it occurred in front of the doctor.
Oh Rebecca.
So sorry to hear this. I know just what you are going through.
Just a suggestion:
Ask the doctor and your attorney
I wonder, if he hadn't had this outburst, if the psych might have said, "welll... let's give him a chance" and opened up the doors for visitation.
As it is, they should be locked up tight.
It's terrible - and totally unnecessary - for you and Avery to be put through this.
I cannot add anything to the fabulous wisdom and words from the rest of this awesome group, but just wanted to add my thoughts and empathies with you and Ave.
mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16
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