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The one that got away
| Wed, 12-31-2008 - 12:59pm |
A few weeks ago I posted about a guy who I had dated shortly after my divorce.
| Wed, 12-31-2008 - 12:59pm |
A few weeks ago I posted about a guy who I had dated shortly after my divorce.
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I think your instincts to back completely away and wait for the dust to settle are good. Divorce is very difficult and emotional. You don't want to be his crutch, you will regret it later. Let him find a male friend to lean on. Tell him you're sorry about his marriage. I don't even think you should leave the door open to him to come to you post divorce. If this is recent, who knows where it will go. They have broken up before and gotten back together.
My advice is let this one go. I think you will end up hurt or pulled down in the much otherwise.
Priscilla
My take on whenever I hear women talk about not "abandoning" guys or need to hang in a bad relationship because they feel some sort of obligation to take care of them is that somehow we all manage to take care of ourselves regardless if a woman stands by us or not.
I know how sucky it is to be "alone" when going through hard times but somehow I have managed to get through it all.
Debra
Neither I nor any of my
Thanks everybody for the replies and advice.
Maybe I wasn't as clear as I wanted to be in the first post.
Please explain to me how accepting a person's sincere apology and being cordial means I don't think highly of myself.
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