overanalysing
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| Sun, 01-13-2008 - 12:41am |
Being a scorpio overanalysing just seems like my second nature. Everything seemed so perfect and I was just thinking today ..hey I am having PMs time and yet no problems.. We had a great day. cooked together watched some " sex and the city ( he doenst like it but kind of watches it for me)" cuddled and a friend of mine called.. we chatted for a long time. She was telling me her difficulty in finding a right guy and so on..
And then I was thinking Hey Biker doenst have any real friends.. I mean no one calls to chat with him.. May be guys dont do that ..call and chat on phone? He has been a bit resigned recently so hasnt made many friends outside of work . And he never keeps in touch with people on purpose and of course most of them are married and have kids so may e he felt left out and.. anyways I had told him that I would like for him to reconnect with his old friends and that would be good for us. I told him once before New year that may eb he should try reconnecting to atleast one or two friends every year.
Today again after I talked to my friend I realised that

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Hey Dance,
I have not read the other posts yet but I wanted to jump in. I have related to you on a lot of other issues regarding our guys but on this one the shoe is on the other foot, because I am the one with less friends than SO!
My feeling is that he is who he is, and it's really not fair to try and make him change. He sounds like a good guy. You are used to having a lot of friends and people contact you but if it's not in his nature to work that way it's OK, unless you find his more solitary nature too conflicting with your more social nature.
My guy is very social. He gets calls every day, from friends, family and even ladies whom he has dated in the past. It is strictly friendly (confirmed) but they call. He takes everyones calls and he is so social that he talks quite a bit with everyone. So, my friend, think of it that way..lol!
Here comes a Taurus jumping into the over-analyzing with you Scorps.
I wanted to say that I relate to Queen-B..to a tee on this one. Queen- I could have written that myself. Blue Eyes is a total extrovert. I am more introverted. The Intr/Extro combo in relationships is very intersting to me. I find SO's extroverted nature a refreshing compliment to me, although admittedly I sometimes get over whelmed by his world of friends and in those times I somply tell him, I need some time to decompress! He understands when I need to be alone. And I understand when he needs to interact. They are two different but very real ways that people get their batteries charged...extroverts through social interactions, and introverts by solitide and inner reflection. I think my SO was drawn to my quieter, introspective nature. I'ts different than him and and compliments his.
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