Overreacted or Just-Deserved?
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Overreacted or Just-Deserved?
| Tue, 02-14-2006 - 2:54pm |
Ok, so I blew my top a little per Instant Messenger (can you do that? I can! LOL) . This little scenario has been going on for a while and I finally decided to just let this guy have it. Now I keep wondering, did he deserve it or am I overreacting? Not that it matters, because it's done, but I am just wondering from a female standpoint if I am right or wrong to tell blow and tell him to get lost. Kind of a etiquette reminder for the future......
I have been dating this guy on and off

Hey Cat,
Sorry you had to go through this. I don't think you are off track at all. I think you totally called the right shot on this one - maybe you just didn't trust yourself and your inner voice right off the bat.
When they come off right off the bat as wanting sex, and especially when they are just having sex with other women, that is all they want and all they see you for. You were totally right to sense this and take offense with it because it is not what you want or will accept now.
I think you did good to say your intentions and I see no harm or problem with getting mad when he clearly did not respect your wishes when you gave him another chance and verbalized your feelings/needs.
Dumpola - into the pond.
I pray that you have the patience to keep weeding through all of these toads and not settling. Of course you are not some desparate single mom. You are a very strong and beautiful women who is going places.
Trust yourself. And stick to what you want. It will get you something very good in the end.
Poor Cat!
Stephanie
Thanks ya'll! The more I thought about it, the more I agreed that the guy was just scum from the bottom of the pond. I rather be alone, because even if I were to have done anything, I would of still been kicked to the curb, alone and on top of that feeling embarrassed and used. I am glad that I can give someone another chance, BUT also learn to not put up with any blank, blank blank from them. :) Even a year ago, I would of been a door mat. I really put