Part II- what gives you your esteem?

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Part II- what gives you your esteem?
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Fri, 11-07-2008 - 11:46am

Yesterday we spilled our insecurities and what makes us self conscious in dating.


Being the beginning of a brand new weekend,

pacificsun2-1.jpg picture by samsigs

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:32pm
Gives my esteem would be the fact that I CAN hold my OWN--dont need someone to give me my lively hood--aka pay my bills, clean my house, take care of kids, etc.
[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:35pm

I look alot younger than my age.

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:35pm
Lets see. I would have to say that my intelligence gives me the most self esteem followed closely by my (still) red hair. I hated it as a kid but love it now. :o)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:42pm

What do I have goin on?

 
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Registered: 09-26-2005
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:44pm

I am a warm, and loving person who treats people with dignity and respect.


I am generous to a fault, I will give you the shirt of my back if necessary.


I'm a great talker/listner. People just feel comfortable spilling their guts to me (TMI lots of times,I Know...)


I am too honest for my own good, but people love it because they know they can come to me for either a hug or a swift kick in the pants or both at the same time.


My great/sick sense of humor.


I'm a no frillls, no nonsense type of gal who makes it on her own, on her own terms and her own way, who takes no prisoners.


The T Girl
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:53pm

This is a hard one to pin point for me.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:01pm

After the divorce, my self worth took a BIG hit.

pacificsun2-1.jpg picture by samsigs
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:14pm

Now part three.... can you say what the hard work WAS/IS

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:39pm

what kind of family do I want NOW (when it was just the girls and I) rather than what I had lost really helped me pick myself up by the boot straps, look at my life and go 'WOW!

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 1:43pm

AWWW... thanks, Pac.

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