Phase II, relationship progresses
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Phase II, relationship progresses
| Thu, 03-24-2005 - 12:33pm |
My BF and I have moved on to Phase II in our relationship. We're starting to see each other's flaws and we're more closely attracted to one another. The intimacy level has deepened and we're moving into the comfort zone.
I hoped to be in a relationship like this, but thought it was a long shot. This is wonderful and we're deeply in love with each other. He says he wants a future with me and he means it. We're partners and it's a mutual admiration thing.

I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!
I remember when J and I moved into that more intimate, deeper stage at nearly the same time. And I remember looking at him at one point and going "Wow, things feel so much ... different? What's happened?" Because there didn't seem to be a reason. We were just out to lunch and became aware of this deeper quality to "us". It was wonderful.
Tricia,
I am SO HAPPY for you!! This is like WOW - what a story!! Keep on goin' girl!!
Yeah, it's good. There aren't any insecurities in this relationship. We're a couple and that's it. It's settled. So, it is possible. Neither one of expected to be in such a great relationship. We both hoped for one, but didn't really think it was possible. We're just really compatible.
I would say hold out for that level of compatibility. There is someone, close to where you live, who is just that compatible with you. Then, everything is easy when you meet. You'll be together from the very start.
So what do you call them? SO? Other half? Partner? Date?
I have a terrible habit of referring to partner's as belonging to the person they are dating, like,"I asked Sarah's Paul if he had fun on his trip"
Isn't that weird? I just don't know how else to refer to them. It just seems easier to put them into some kind of context. I know-I'm strange! LOL!
All the Best,
Jean