A Pleasant Surprise...UPDATE! (pt 2)
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| Mon, 04-10-2006 - 9:49am |
Ok.. Here's the scoop-de-doop....;)
He arrived at my house 25 min early! YIKES! I wasn't ready yet, but he wanted to be on time,he had planned for extra time in case he got lost...(made points there)
He talked with me while I finished getting ready(kind of awkward, but nice ). We drove to the party where he was a complete, and I mean COMPLETE gentleman. I tell you.. it has been a LONG time since I have been out with a guy who would stand up every time I went to leave the table, get up to get me a drink, take my jacket from me, open doors, etc.... It such a refreshing change. He got along with everyone at the table, didn't feel uncomfortable at all.. we were able to dance a slow dance, talk and just enjoy the night.. My friends at the table thought he was adorable, and very nice. They were impressed. We were invited to go hang out after the party at a Kareoke Bar, but opted out (I figured enough of my friends for one night) and just went back to my place, popped in a movie, (which we didn't watch) and just relaxed.. We spent the rest of the night just talking and fooling around.. (That's all)...He was such a gentleman about the entire thing...even while fooling around he never pushed the envelope..again, a refreshing change.. PLUS, he was gone by midnight...It was a very comfortable evening.. just a natural flow of conversation, laughter, and enjoying each others company..He asked to see me again, and I said sure... I was hoping to..;)
I text'd him this morning to say "Good Morning" and he called back within 10 min.. to say GM back.. it's nice.. he's cute.. I'm attracted.. but not the knocked on my @ss attracted.. that's the only part I'm concerned about right now.. he's so nice, I'm hoping we get to go out again to see how this will fit...
Lisa..


Lisa, it sounds like you had a great time! It's great that he fit in so well with your friends, and that you were so comfortable with him.
I sort of know what you mean about the attraction thing, and maybe it's because of the comfort level being so high, you know? You aren't fending him off, and he isn't pusing his weight around, so to speak, so you wonder what's wrong with this picture. I'm hoping that's all it is, at least for me. Go on a few more dates, and take things slowly, and just enjoy yourself!
Keep us posted!
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Thanks!
Exactly.. It was all so 'calm'...and just comfortable.. it left me thinking.. 'is this it?" ya know? But at the same time really enjoying just being me..
yeah, I'm going to wait and see what this weekend brings.. With Easter coming up and all...Who knows.. So frequently just when you think they'll stay around, they ghost on you or just plain dump you... so I'm layng low and takin it slow... HEY! that could be my new slogan.
"LAYING LOW and TAKIN' IT SLOW"....
lol
Lisa
Lisa,
Thumbs up to this one - I am sure that the sparkles will start as you two become better acquainted. And if they don't you have a great new friend.
It is so refreshing to hear a story of respect and courtship. Keep the details coming. He is showing you his good intentions!!
Lisa,
I'm glad the night went so smoothly, awesome for a first date!