Please help this pathetic tomboy
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| Sun, 06-01-2008 - 5:11pm |
I have wondered why guys dont find me attractive. But I think I now know why. I am decent looking, in great shape and well kept but there is nothing feminine about me at all! Its pathetic. When I go out to run errands I usually throw on some running pants, one of my many race t shirts and a pair of sneakers. To work I wear a pair of nice jeans or cords with a matching polo shirt. To go out on a date I will throw on a blouse and leather jacket but still nothing feminine about me at all. I have one pair of little dot earings and no other jewelry. I even wear a worn out iron man watch. I even have a short boyish hair cut.
I even have a boyish personality. My hobbies are home maintenance, old cars and aviation. I run a lot and I am into martial arts and repair computers on the side. Jeez I am pathetic.
I need help. My kids want to put me on What Not to Wear.
Please help. I want to be attractive, especially to Religious Guy but I also want to be who I am.
Any ideas?
Laurie

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most of them are holy, if you know what I mean
Laurie - I am sure that you will find the right look and comfort point for you.
Yeah got it. Don't need to shout. In saying "care more" I meant, care more on your own. Not to catch a guy.
If you only did that for someone else, it wouldn't last once you were comfortable. If you like the way you are, then that's the way you are. Personally, I think there is always room for improvement. You seem to think so too.
I tend to be more confident when I meet my own definition of "looking good". That confidence in itself is attractive. I've known people who could care less what makeup or clothes I was wearing, but my attitude made a difference.
So take the advice offered by all the other posters, and figure out what you actually would like to do on your own terms.
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