POF Coffee date update.. decoder needed!
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| Mon, 10-27-2008 - 6:24am |
Ok, so I went on my POF Coffee date and physically he's a doll baby. He's very geeky with these amazing blue eyes and thick dark hair.. you'd never ever guess he was almost 41. He could easily pass for 28. Anyway, we shall call him Irish cause both of his parents are Irish and you can just look at him and see Irish! haha.
Great conversation, never a dull moment.. but he's not like normal men. He's admitted that he's a total dunce when it comes to women and most of the time women have to smack him over the head with a book before he's like Oh.. you like me? LOL. I'm like oh dear god...! So when it was time to leave there was no hug, or nice meeting you, or lets do this again it was just he got up and said "Ok bye!" lol.
I totally 110% put my foot in my mouth, and I'm not sure if I should bring it up and apologize or just ignore that I ever said it. I said you remind me of my 19 year old boyfriend. First of all, 19 or not why did I compare him to an ex ya know? Then I continued to poke fun of the 19 year old boyfriend and what a weirdo he was! Ugg! What I meant though was that they both have the same look about them.. both very handsome. Shame on me lol.
Ok so here is the email I got from him last night:
Hey I just realized

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Yah I have to respectfully somewhat disagree here. I don't think that chemistry always comes on the first date, but yah sometimes it does, and most of the time I think it does. One of the best relationships I've ever had (and I honestly thought this was the man I was going to marry back in my mid 20s) was someone I was not attracted to, and I couldn't wait for the date to be over. He wasn't even personality wise my type.. he was very soft spoken, but
Hey,
For me, great conversation is huge! Without it, everything else is useless to me. I think Irish has potential.
I have to totally agree with you here.
JH
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