POF Coffee date update.. decoder needed!

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Registered: 07-28-2008
POF Coffee date update.. decoder needed!
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Mon, 10-27-2008 - 6:24am

Ok, so I went on my POF Coffee date and physically he's a doll baby. He's very geeky with these amazing blue eyes and thick dark hair.. you'd never ever guess he was almost 41. He could easily pass for 28. Anyway, we shall call him Irish cause both of his parents are Irish and you can just look at him and see Irish! haha.


Great conversation, never a dull moment.. but he's not like normal men. He's admitted that he's a total dunce when it comes to women and most of the time women have to smack him over the head with a book before he's like Oh.. you like me? LOL. I'm like oh dear god...! So when it was time to leave there was no hug, or nice meeting you, or lets do this again it was just he got up and said "Ok bye!" lol.


I totally 110% put my foot in my mouth, and I'm not sure if I should bring it up and apologize or just ignore that I ever said it. I said you remind me of my 19 year old boyfriend. First of all, 19 or not why did I compare him to an ex ya know? Then I continued to poke fun of the 19 year old boyfriend and what a weirdo he was! Ugg! What I meant though was that they both have the same look about them.. both very handsome. Shame on me lol.


Ok so here is the email I got from him last night:


Hey I just realized

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 12:57pm

Lol... I laugh at that too "ok bye!".

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 1:00pm

He does sound rather innocent.

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 1:01pm

Oh, I forgot to add something very comical about our meeting...


You know how when you're meeting someone and the LAST thing you want to do is be like walking into the room looking around for the guy while he's watching you like get out of the car, walk across the parking lot, walk into the restaurant.. all the while like sizing you up? God I HATE that feeling!


Anyway lol, I had a feeling he was already there based on one of the old cars in the parking lot. The man has an obsession with old cars. So I'm getting that weird feeling and I walk into the place and I see this guy leaning up against the counter with his back turned to me and I just know its him. So I walked right up next to him, leaned up against the counter totally copying him and leaned over and said "I dunno, I'm thinking about the Carmel Macciato.. you?" And I made him jump.. IT WAS GREAT!!! lol

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 1:08pm

cough


he owns 40 cars


cough

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 1:09pm

LOL TJ!


Well for a first meeting I think it sounded fine. Irish is a good name but I kept thinking "clueless" based on a couple things you said. First off.."OK Bye" LOL!!! Oh yes, clueless. Too funny!


And I would only be concerned (or maybe just cautious for the time being) about his comment aobut not knowing if he might just "date around". I would feel better knowing what a guys intentions are (looking for something more serious or just wanting to have casual dates) pretty early on. So if you see him again, maybe feel him out on that after three dates or so.


I think his email to you was nice and it implied he wants to see you again. I would assume for a date. Will you email him back and agree?


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Mon, 10-27-2008 - 1:54pm

he owns 40 cars


Ummm........., what? LOL.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 2:18pm
40 cars?
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Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 3:07pm

Ok, best conversation ever just now on the phone. However, I talked so long and laughed so hard that when it was over I just had a coughing fit so bad that I vomited three times.. ugg! I am still very sick, tired, and I run out of breath very easily. I'm on silence right now.. no talking for a while here at home.


Anyway! A few highlights that cracked me up...


The whole situation on his end while we're talking is that he's riding down the road in one of his many 30+ year old cars, transmission starts giving him trouble, so he's going 40mpg down the hwy, goes back the house, swaps to another car.. LOL.


Him: "I can't believe you snuck up and grabbed me"
Me: "I never grabbed you!"
Him: "Ok well in my fantasy you grabbed me"
Me: "Yes, in your fantasy I snuck up behind you -

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Tue, 10-28-2008 - 10:40pm
He has potential and seems interested and nice. I'd give him a little time.
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