POF question

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
POF question
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Wed, 07-18-2007 - 10:05pm
Why do so many guys add someone to their favorites, but then never e-mail?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
In reply to: lizs33
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 8:49pm
Thank you Mark, your perspective on this is exactly what I
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
In reply to: lizs33
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 9:55pm
Wow, it worked!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-03-2003
In reply to: lizs33
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 11:46pm

Good luck with MrICB and MrRambly.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 12:11am

Thanks for sharing... ride that wave of good feelings!

Mark

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 8:14am

I know what you mean about the idiots. Here is what I did - I accept their initial IM message and then I click on their pic to see their profile. If I don't like them I hit the block button. LOL!!

I don't like the whole chatting thing either. And to be honest, I met a few of the guys from POF and didn't like any of them. I think the quality on match and the number of guys plus the ease and ability for them to search and really see the pix is worth the money. I have tried a lot of sites - POF, fitnesssingles, match, yahoo, eharmony, KISS, and probably more and to me, for my age group and location, there is nothing like match. I think if a guy has to fill out all that stuff and pay, he is interested in finding a match and dating. Not all of course, but most. And it is a numbers game in the end - and match has the numbers for sure.

But you have to have the money and be ready. I know you have a lot on your plate right now with the move and stuff.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 8:16am
THAT is great you have 2 irons in the fire. Okay, you have to use Soonee's rule and find one more!! LOL!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 8:18am

We need more men like you!! And the woman who gets you is going to be very lucky!!

Have you met any more good prospects? Keep us posted!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 11:59am

Well, actually there are probably a couple more.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2005
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 9:58pm

Oh wow! I used to live in Bay Ridge before I moved to Staten Island! If you go there now,
great restaurants and bars, but it has become like most of the city, the land of the young, skinny and pretty. My almost 25 yo ds and wife hang out there if it gives you any idea of how youthful it is.

Good luck with your new prospects! Read the POF forums when you get the chance, they're something else!

The T Girl
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
In reply to: lizs33
Fri, 07-20-2007 - 10:12pm
I stopped hanging out in the bars when I got pregnant at 34.

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