A Poll for my future...

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Registered: 07-28-2008
A Poll for my future...
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Sat, 04-24-2010 - 10:24pm

So since men disgust me now should I:


a. Get a few more cats


or


b. Become a Lesbian


I mean, there aren't a lot of choices here lol.

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Registered: 02-25-2009
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 10:28pm
A dog.
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Registered: 02-25-2009
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 10:29pm
But dont use them together! lol

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 10:46pm

I really LOVE your new profile pic - so much better!!

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 10:52pm

Well thanks,


I figured I had to put something decent up there since I'm now "To fat for Hawaii". Holy smokes you guys I walked two miles tonight ranting that over and over in my head. Whatever works right? lol

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 10:57pm
Yes girl, whatever works for sure.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Sat, 04-24-2010 - 11:05pm

The ONLY red flags is that he was very very into his health, eating, and working out. I would often wonder hmm.. why is he dating me? But then I would just remember that there were things about him that I overlooked because I loved him, so he must be doing the same.


He called his brother's girlfriend fat and I think she's like a size 10 maybe? And I'd just think to myself wow.. this man must just really love me.


When we were in Charleston we were walking up stairs and he said "I love doing this to people at work. I make them walk up the stairs, have a conversation and then laugh when they get winded." I was very offended by that and I almost said something right then and there.


Besides him just being a snob at times there were zero indications. He called every day, three times a day, always telling me that he loved me. When we left Charleston it was his idea to come back in June.


Zero indications.. very affectionate, loving, attentive... really, the perfect relationship.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 7:37am

I just am floored by his arrogance and piginess! (yes, I'm making that a word--just for him!).


Hang tough girl!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 9:41am
OK don't let him get to you--you're really cute. He must be a very insecure guy. I'm all for trying to be healthy but that doesn't give someone the right to put down people who are overweight or not as fit. I noticed that my ex would constantly criticize people's appearance. If we were sitting somewhere, he would put down everyone--this one dresses too young for her age, that one's clothes are too tight, etc. Now he wasn't a good looking guy and when he took certain meds it made him gain weight so I just think he was also very insecure about his looks. I just asked him to stop it cause it was just so rude.
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 12:27pm
I am with R. dog and Vibrator. Take the dog for walks, to the park. Great way to meet men when you are ready. The toy will get you through until you are ready and then will be extra fun with the right guy!
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 4:58pm
I think you hit the nail on the head, Music. The more people are insecure with their own looks, jobs, salary, etc., the more they put others down.

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