Poll: Top Tuesdays......

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Registered: 08-04-2005
Poll: Top Tuesdays......
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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 10:33am

Give yourself

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Registered: 12-10-2003
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 10:46am

hey, this is cool...its sort of how I do my journaling.

I think the country song "My Baby Loves Me Just The Way That I Am" is what comes to mind when I think of a partner and the title is self explanatory...if want to give and received acceptance and the desire to make someone happy who you know wants to make you happy. I want a man who melts when he sees me dressed to the nines and laughs and hugs me when he sees me in fav mens pajama shirt and slippers! Its quite simple actually. I like someone who understands that I am not one dimensional - I am a wonderful mother and a hottie (wink wink), I like to dance to loud music but I love a glass of wine adn Sara McLaughlin, I get mad, happy, and I like to stamp my foot and pout when I get frustrated but will laugh away a bad mood. I want a man who udnerstands sensuality and feels passion of any sort not just the physical stuff.

oops...I think my five minutes are up!

Lisa

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Registered: 07-03-2003
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 10:53am
attractive, loyal, someone that will be there when i need him, that i'm important too as well as my son, accepts me with my son, someone that does those little things to show he cares, honest, hard-working, doesn't run from problems, that respects me, etc, etc, etc....not afraid of commitment

 

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Registered: 08-04-2005
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 11:05am

into me


integrity


respects me


commited


loyal


honest


family oriented


career oriented


ambitious


secure emotionally and financially


funny


mishevious - can't always be perfect


sexual


emotional - shows his feelings


communicative


affectionate


caring


knows when to be a kid


knows when to be a man


supportive


intelligent


dorky


tolerant


dreamer and implements it into his life


goal oriented


................................My five minutes are up but I could have written a whole lot more. It looks like I have found the man that can give me all of those things. I know that when we talk, he does give me all of those things. Now I just need to see it face to face if the chemistry hits all around. Just 3.5 more days!


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Registered: 01-16-2006
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 3:06pm


What I need.........

Love,
Friendship,
Common interests
Humor
Sex
The ability to listen
The ability to share and develop new interests together....
Strong shoulders (for me to lean on...)
Companionship.
HOnesty
kindness
sensitivity..
the ability to laugh and take charge when needed to
intelligence
bravery
wisdom
creativity

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Registered: 12-20-2005
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 3:56pm
Sense of humor--I can be soooo serious at times.
Punctuality--I can't stand tardiness
Self-confidence
Drive
Goals
Amibtion
An original point of view/take on life
Patience
Think of a relationship as a partnership, not a dictatorship
The insight to answer "Why?"
Intellect
Array of interests--mine cover tent-camping through to attending the symphony
Able to accept unconditional love
Willing to put up with my idiosyncracies
Old-fashioned--turn the crank on the ice cream maker on a hot summer afternoon
Dance
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Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 4:27pm

honesty, commitment, faith, trust, taller than me, a nice smile, friendly eyes, a good father, good with mechanical type doodads, musical (even if he just appreciates it), happy, doesn't let me walk all over him (and I'll try), gives in when it's important to me, makes me laugh at myself, shares my sorrows, doesn't try to "fix" my life, even if I spend three days obsessing over the same thing, loves my kids, loves me unconditionally, isn't violent, likes my friends, has his own interests, and even if I don't get into them is willing to talk about them, wants to spend time together and apart....hmmm 5 minutes is a long time! He won't judge me, he'll think I'm funny, smart, pretty, and perfect (for him, at least), he'll bring me flowers just because, and write me love letters, hold my hand when I'm scared, not be afraid to cry when he is, or scream, or whatever.
There! 5 whole minutes!

Now, I'm dying to read what everyone else put! (I bet some of mine would be different if I had a boyfriend, too!)


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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 9:17pm

This is a cute poll, Cat, good idea!

Into me, fit, fun, emotionally available, integrity, honest, affectionate, communicative, good parenting skills (same philosophy as me), responsible, not wasteful, smart, able to adapt and grow.

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 12:32pm
Reliable, responsible, good lover, good talker, good listner, a giver,intelligent, honest,funny, dosen't take himself too seriously, romantic, a good, kind heart. Secure with himself because I'm an alpha female and 99% of the time, I will take the lead. Appreciates me warts and all. Is willing to be my forever boyfriend because I don't ever want to marry or live together. Who knows maybe if he's good enough I can even change my mind :-) just no mancrap please ! Won't put up with it for one second.
Times up......
The T Girl