Pool Party recap
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| Sun, 07-27-2008 - 9:37am |
This was a great party.... met sooo many people, had many great\fun conversations, minigolf, horse shoe, swimming pool and hot tub.
I found those short shorts i've been talking about, so i decided to finally wear them.... it being a pool party, right. BUT i had a one guy give me a new nickname "cheeks" and another guy joke that i was showing too much cheeks. I said, oh, i thought short short never went out of style. I truly hope it didn't look like i was wearing shorts that were inappropriate. Afterall, a bathing suit shows more than that..... we'll see if they post pictures of my rear... i'll let you know then how embarrassed i am.
Age came up again!!!! One guy pointed out that it is my own insecurities that make it a big deal to me. I responded that he's prob right. He asked me how old i was (he looked 38 or older) and when i told him 36, he was just super impressed. He said he thinks people ask your age to establish boundaries. Another person said to see what generation you are; X or Y.... i thought those were

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How cool for you and sounds like you had a good time.
i went from short shorts yesterday to a low cut blouse today... hehehe... i didn't design it that way, i swear. But tonight was shooting pool and apparently when i bent over to make a shot, it gave a clear view down my shirt. One guy pointed out that i went from "cheeks" to "cleavage".... oh well, if there's still something to see, they might as well look *high five*
Super Impressed Guy did not show up.... i was kinda looking forward to meeting him again. oh well. I had a great time shooting pool anyway... even though i played horribly. I met at least four new people in the group and i'm hoping for a decent turnout for this saturday, which is another karaoke contest.
i'm hoping hottie2 stays in touch
"I know you tend to lean towards the younger dudes but give the older ones a try too."
Yes - that is what I have been saying, too. The older guys are more interested in finding a match/soulmate and are into what is in your head - they tend not to be the "instant gratification" types that want instant sex and then throw away the package when they are done.
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" "what u doing baw?"...anyone know what "baw" means?"
Perhaps that is case and point that you shouldn't date the younger guys- you don't even speak their LANGUAGE!
According to Urbandictionary.com... a BAW is "Scottish slang meaning 'ball' as in testicle "
Somehow he's used that as a term of endearment.... not really MY style, but whatever floats your boat...
you don't even speak their LANGUAGE!
LOL... you have a point there.... i'm always asking my sister to help me interpret text language.... (she has a teenager). Let's just say i'm willing to look past the language barrier... I'll ask him about "baw" the next time i see him... and get back to ya.
As for the older super impress guy..... even though he was acting super impressed.... don't you think his comments were weird...
i spend time with the children during the day because i work nights.... it takes a lot of energy, yes, to go out as much as i do .... i guess i'm fortunate in that way. On weekends, i wait til after they are asleep before going out... i like having a full and busy schedule.
Pictures loony.
So you can give me honest feedback on whether it was too much...LOL... would be much appreciated.. so ya think the blouse is the reason the guys kept letting me play pool even though i wasn't winning.. LOL...jk
The only thing I would say - is that if you think it is too much and they are all talking about it and asking your age - it might be a tad much? I think it is easy to be "instant soup" for the guys - to draw them in with sexuality - but I fear that it attracts totally the wrong kinds. I mean I know you don't want marriage. But I do think you want a nice boyfriend who doesn't want to open up a can of soup - then throw it out.
It is easy to be instant soup - and get discarded. But it is harder to be someone you love yourself and be a gourmet meal to the right person. I sense that you might be trying too hard to fit into the younger crowd?
Just a thought...... I am not saying marry an older guy - just don't be afraid to be you and dress nice and command respect for your own beauty and artistic nature and good person. I guess this means patience, too :-D
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