Pool Party recap
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| Sun, 07-27-2008 - 9:37am |
This was a great party.... met sooo many people, had many great\fun conversations, minigolf, horse shoe, swimming pool and hot tub.
I found those short shorts i've been talking about, so i decided to finally wear them.... it being a pool party, right. BUT i had a one guy give me a new nickname "cheeks" and another guy joke that i was showing too much cheeks. I said, oh, i thought short short never went out of style. I truly hope it didn't look like i was wearing shorts that were inappropriate. Afterall, a bathing suit shows more than that..... we'll see if they post pictures of my rear... i'll let you know then how embarrassed i am.
Age came up again!!!! One guy pointed out that it is my own insecurities that make it a big deal to me. I responded that he's prob right. He asked me how old i was (he looked 38 or older) and when i told him 36, he was just super impressed. He said he thinks people ask your age to establish boundaries. Another person said to see what generation you are; X or Y.... i thought those were

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"As for the older super impress guy..... even though he was acting super impressed.... don't you think his comments were weird..."
You wouldn't think twice about his comments if he was 25 though.
I wonder why you have such doubts/ aversions to older men?
A little reminder that guys in their late 30's , 40's and even 50's can be HOT:
Age 47
Age 41
Age 46
Age 37
Age 38
Need I say more?...LOL!!! I'm just waiting for a guy to sweep you off your feet who is ready for more than just fun..no matter what his age :o)
perhaps i'll do an experiment and STOP mentioning age for a bit... i know it has become more MY thing than anyone else's and i'm prob the one always bringing it up whenever someone asks me my age... so, for as long i can do it.. NO MORE mentioning age.. i'll try to be more neutral in describing my adventures in dating.
as for the comments by SuperImpGuy:
"you have intrigued me", "you are a beautiful woman", "you got me, i don't know what it is"... and finally, "the last woman to affect me this way was my exwife".....
these struck me as weird because it seemed like too much too soon. especially when he started commenting on his exwife. Okay.. points to him for making sure i didn't pass over his compliment that he was trying to tell me how beautiful he thinks i am... very nice.. but the "you got me" part struck me as weird. The last
thanks pac!
yum. yum and more yum....
Did I mention that i'm renting the first season of Smallville. I never did catch the series much.. just here and there. so I've decided (since Tom Welling in in my top 5) to rent the entire Smallville series (all 8 seasons). I've been enjoying it.
I think regardless of age, a guy who comes on too strong after a short meeting is just a guy who's telling you what he thinks you want to hear in order to get you in bed.
Do pay attention, like you said, to their actions and disregard most of what you hear them say.
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