Possible Date Tonight

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Possible Date Tonight
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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 11:59am

..with Ben lookalike. I didn't drunk text him, but i did call him last night while i was out... At first it went to voice mail. But, then he called me back. he said he was out with his friends and they were bar hopping. I was talking outside in the cold, so we didn't talk long... But he asked me if I was going out again tonight.. Or suggested renting a movie to watch at his house...

Like I said, we chatted on the phone for 15 minutes.... about what movies i've seen recently and he asked me what I do for fun, etc... okay, so i sense a little "just interested in sex" vibe.. But only a little one.... and did I mention he looks like Ben Affleck? Can't blame me for being interested in a little kissing... :-o. But seriously, he didn't say "come over right now" or anything... And he had a nice voice... about like Ben Affleck, too. LOL.

Loonybunny *grinning*

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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 12:12pm

Attention is good. I am curious if you know what you want for right now or have thought about that with regards to dating? Is it just fun flirting? Or do you really want someone who will ask you out on dates and be more interested in your romantically? Because I am not sure if this is the one for that since he required you to call him first and made comments about sex or coming to his house for a movie. Maybe you can keep him out of the house and just see how that goes? but maybe that is just an issue with me?

I just think that after watching you with Sean - you did have a lot of fun - but then wanted more from him. I was wondering if that might be an indication that you are indeed ready for more. Just don't want to see you get disappointed.

Although the selfish person in me says congrats and come back with one of your fun stories!! LOL!! And who can complain about a Ben lookalike?

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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 3:15pm

He DIDN'T make a sex comment.. I just got that vibe because he said movie at his house... but he didn't actually make a comment.

Yes, I'm just fun flirting. getting out there and not concerned about finding a boyfriend.

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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 4:10pm

Well, you go girl! Ben Affleck Guy sounds at the very least, fun. Who knows about anymore but you'll never know without at least talking with him some more. Sorry to say I have never been into the Benster (Bed Affleck). Probably because he reminds me of my brother. Eeww! LOL!


Have fun! looking forward to your update :o)


~Pacific~
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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 4:31pm
Ah - okay - good to know. Keep us posted - we do have to give him credit for wanting to see you soon.
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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 5:56pm
>>Sorry to say I have never been into the Benster<< Are you kidding me? I've liked him since I first saw him in Armageddon... I liked his pretty boy look. And really fell in love after watching him in "Pearl Harbor"... And how's this for a coincidence.. I just rented Pearl Harbor last week to watch again.... and then, i meet a lookalike. Yeah!
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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 6:15pm
Yum yum yum!
 
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Fri, 11-30-2007 - 9:27am

.... I chickened out last night... Didn't call him... I was tired first off since I was out the night before.... My phone ran out of batteries so while it was charging, I fell asleep. I woke up at 3 am thinking, darn, it's too late.

Loonybunny

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Fri, 11-30-2007 - 10:00am

Well, a girl's gotta sleep! :-)

Although we are bummed we don't get a story. I hope you don't mind my questions - I feel like your pesky big sister that wants to see you get a nice one after all you went through with your exh - I think all of our hearts went out to you on that one - and it really helped Pacific see the other side to it.

Okay - hopefully you are up and at 'em this morning and will see if he called or maybe get another call.

Keep us posted!!