Pregnant and embarrassed

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Registered: 09-05-2003
Pregnant and embarrassed
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Thu, 12-08-2005 - 4:24pm
Im 26, have a good job, have a 5 yr old little boy,, have my own house... I have been w/. my bf for over a yr and just found out im pregnant. Im so embarrassed that Im not married and will have 2 different fathers.. WE talk about getting married but I dont want to do it now just cause Im pregnant
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 12-08-2005 - 9:38pm

Hi Honeyap,

You have done so well to have a good job and your own house at just 26 - that is great.

I know that your pregancy is a suprise. But don't try to think too much about the fathers and all that stuff right now. Don't be embarassed about making the choice to have a child. A child is a blessing and I am sure your little boy will love a sibling.

It is great that you and your bf were talking marriage - but I do understand your hesitation because you don't want to do it just because of the pregnancy. Why don't you two agree to put the whole topic on hold until after the baby comes. Then you can see if it is right for you.

Do you have family or friends that can help you now? Hopefully your bf will help a lot, too.

Keep us posted!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 10:31pm

Honey,


You shouldn't worry too much about what others think.


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