Prince and Bully Update...
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| Wed, 05-21-2008 - 11:32am |
SO I have been lurking and trying to keep up with everyone but my heart has just not been up to responding or even sticking my 2 cents into anyones business since i have felt like absolute CRAP for a few weeks and not sure why...well i sort of know and so do the rest of you...the bully needling me as always. It started a few weeks ago when he called to see DD...no problem. Was nice as pie and then I picked up DD at the end of his day with her and there was the OW back yet again and he had alcohol on his breath...fast forward He files a motion against me because i refused to bring DD the following week to see him. So he calls to harass me and continues to then the OW calls and leaves vulgar messages so my Atty advises me to have my number changed and i do. The the atty advises CP that he can only communicate with me through his office. Well CP and the OW harass and threaten my atty and his staff so much they tell him he can only contact them through written communication now. You get where this is all going right???$$$$$$$ out of my pocket. Soooo my atty tells me DD has to go see him or i will be in contempt and we have a mediation set up and i have to go without atty. SO i do...this morning...and the mediator had to end the mediation because CP was sooooo unwilling to bend. He wants DD 5 days a week in the fall, 2 ON a week, me to continue to drive her, all holidays and bdays...i said no we will have to let the atty and the judge handle it. He sat there telling me i was disgusting, i did this, pulled out an police report from 6 years ago when i slapped him across the face for spitting in my face and refusing to leave my apartment (before we lived together and DD was even born) and I was arrested because he said i slapped him...umm i called the police because he wouldnt leave. It was dropped because he never showed up at court...we had actually gotten back together at that point (its humiliating to me that i let him push me to that point...i know when to walk away but he spit in my face...who does that to a woman...worse yet what woman goes back after that?????) Now we have court next tuesday and im sick about it. He says hes pulling out the police report, hes gonna fight for full custody...I know it wont happen but you never know and im in full blown panic mode.
I cant even enjoy that i got a car. The prince helped me..its used but its mine and its awesome. DD loves it and its mine...Its

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It's his OWN fault she would have to ride a bus- not yours: if he didn't have his license pulled for DUI's, he would at least have an ability to drive if he had access to a vehicle.
Yes he said all of it in front of the mediator but you cant bring anything that was said during mediation up. They even have you sign a form saying you wont and that the mediator cannot be subpoenaed by either party. NICE HUH?????!!!!! he has called me worse and said much more horrible things...Did you know that the affair with the other woman was all my doing? I pushed him to her...Yes I know it now...it was me who pushed him into the arms of a 21 year old whore from Russia with a nasty little STD....yes that was me...LOL His barbs dont bother me nearly as much as they used to. I just laugh it off and if the judge asks why i dont want her to be there during the week and out of daycare...well lets just say I prefer her not to need an ESL course by 1st grade. Was that catty???
Ive heard about the Lysene (sp?) but unfortunately with me they are absolutely instantaneous. I go to sleep and BAM theres Mount St. Helens on my lip somewhere. Ugghhhh I hate men with little penis' and super inflated egos...LOL
What about his gf- does she work?
"I dont even think shes here legally..."
Doesn't that mean he's harbouring a criminal?
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Mom, do you post on the Domestic Abuse boards under relationship problems? Its a great board and many of the women there are going through the same thing you are.
Laurie
I am so sorry you are going through this. You should not have to drive. Besides this guy seems senseless. I would fight everyway possible to keep this guy far far away- especially with this wicked OW around.
Good luck with everything. and Big Hugs.
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