Prince/Bully Update...

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Prince/Bully Update...
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Tue, 03-25-2008 - 12:29pm

Soooooo like veggies on your plate lets get through the gross ones first...


The Bully: So he called Monday to talk about his day this week and what would "work best" for him. Seems hes working all this week and not sure of a day when he can see DD. (fine by me really if he doesnt see her at all) You know with the warm weather we have been having lately (the balmy 30-40's on the beachfront with the 30-45 mph winds business MUST be insane at the pizzeria) hes not sure of his work schedule. He asked how her Easter was and I said really great. She had a great time and got waaaayyyy to many easter baskets and goodies. He snapped back that his DD did an easter egg hunt too. Without going into his ramblings to much (all in all he was ok for a pr***). He then said you know you could call sometimes. i said why would I call you...to tell you what a pr*** i think you are...LOL he said oh sure go ahead and blame me for everything. I assured him that i do. So i told him to give me

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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 9:01am

I know right with CP...he thinks we can 'be friends'...and monkeys will fly out of my butt one day.


SO the Prince came over for dinner and it was a bit of a flop. I have visions of me being the next big top chef and yet i suck LOL He ate 2 helpings and I wrapped some to take home. He was sooooo sweet about it really. He brought flowers and a sponge bob pillow for DD because she loves him...you would think princesses right??? not my little girl LOL. After DD went to bed we sat on the sofa and watched some tv and chatted and i fell asleep with my head on his lap. He woke me up about 10 pm and told me to go to bed. What a gentleman really...now i need to find a sitter because i want a one on one date and then some if you know what im sayin...i think 10 mos. of celibacy is quite long enough LOL Yeah CP and i split in Sept but it had ended in Jun last year when he started porking his tramp (that I know of). Besides the Prince had on cologne last night that he used to wear and it DROVE me nuts. DD sat on his lap and when i was putting her to bed i smelled it in her hair and it was a nice feeling. While i was cooking she was sitting with him and watching Monsters Inc (hes getting a full Disney crash course), it caught me of guard and it looked so natural for the 2 of them i asked if she was to much for him and he answered real quick nope not at all we are just fine. So with such a great night and easter why have i had to nightmares in the past 2 nights re: CP. The first one I woke up because i was beating the absolute snot out of him and this morning I woke up because in my nightmare he was standing outside the window and i grabbed DD and hid in another room and then I heard the door open up and the neighbor had let him and I was screaming he was not welcome in my home and DD was crying and I woke up in a panic. Not sure what it means but im not happy about it!!! Soonee??? Yoda??? Interpret please...


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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 10:30am

Your prince sounds totally AWESOME!

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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 11:53am

See--I told you, no matter how the food was he is a prince so he asked for more and took some home--I expected that!

April

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Wed, 03-26-2008 - 12:01pm

Well, I'm no Soonee or Yoda, but I'll give ya my two cents for what its worth!


The nighmare about CP invading your home reflects anxieties about him wanting "in" to your life again. Your subconscious is all but screaming to you in warning..he is not welcome in your mind, your space. In dreams, your home represents yourself. You'e been literally trampled on by the bully in reality and so now his smooth talking tactics to get on your good side, as the dream symbolized by his getting into your house, are threatening to you and your well being-- understandably so.


Listen to your dreams. :o) They are created and structured for your own well being!!


~Pacific~
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Thu, 03-27-2008 - 9:38am

Thank you Pac...You are now my OB1...yeah I was a star wars nerd as a little kid...LOL You are spot on though. Thanks for putting it into perspective for me. Last night I was so nervous about going to sleep i stayed up watching tv and now im beat today...LOL but last night CP didnt invade...this time it was a panic attack because i took myself clothes shopping in my dream and spent $759.00 - yeah I remember the exact amount LOL I guess its telling me im worried about spending money I think because its been so long since i bought myself clothes or shoes and a bit more than normal on myself but it felt good and now i guess im feeling guilty...oh well...it ws only $59 in real life LOL


thanks again Pac...


M

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Thu, 03-27-2008 - 12:01pm

You are always welcome..I'll gladly be you OB1 for dream analysis, lol!! Oh yes, the money dreams- I've had them, too. Yes they certainly do reflect money anxiety! I dream about spending too much also then wake up totally freaked and worried about my real life situation. I think those dreams are the minds way of just keeping us in check about spending, but as you see dreams tend to exagetate to get the point accross!


~Pacific~
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Thu, 03-27-2008 - 6:10pm

Aww - I meant to chime in and say sorry to hear that CP is still causing you stress. You do deserve retail therapy where you can buy yourself something nice and he won't have a say.

And I thought this was priceless!!
"I know right with CP...he thinks we can 'be friends'...and monkeys will fly out of my butt one day."

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Fri, 03-28-2008 - 9:48am

O-M-G NEED TO VENT...CP is back with the GF. I knew it would happen in no time. You know Im an animal lover so I cant even compare him to anything. Hes a species all his own. He totally blew off

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Fri, 03-28-2008 - 12:59pm

Ok, no time spent on CP.

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Fri, 03-28-2008 - 1:17pm

Thanks Rebecca. I called one of her Drs and said look im not geetting answers hear whats up. He explained about the cath and possible complications and the strain that it puts on the kidneys. He also explained prior to everything shes had been dosed up for weeks on antibiotics possibly causing an infection in her intestine causing the vomiting and diariah lending a hand to the dehydration causing the renal failure. He caled about her labs and said that her kidney functions are almost back to normal but they need to do some cultures to look for the infection. She has CPD so shes been treated with steroids for so long she now has cushings. So my concern is that the steroids have caused more damage than they are picking up. A few weeks ago the dr. said she was anemic and her potassium was really really low. She didnt think anything of it and the dr didnt either but i also googled everything and it says these are all early warning signs of renal failure which can lead to cardiac disease but this guy seems to think the cardiac problem was from her lungs and now the kidneys are from the cardiac...Its a never ending looping nightmare really. We arent really known for our medical care in my area. I need to get her to Philadelphia but shes been tooooo sick to travel its only 2 hours but its to much on her right now. And shes only 58...nice huh.


CP is a waste of his fathers 'love juice' LOL what a jackass can you believe it???Sure you can. It just makes me sad for DD that he blew her off the way he did. Hes such a manipulative creep. I wanted to say Im sorry for what you and your DD are going through. Youve got a grade A prick there and it just breaks my heart for her but I think you are doing a great job of protecting her and being strong.


I will be seeing the prince again tonight so im hoping hes going to help me ...ummmm alleviate some stress. We havent even so much as smooched yet but im getting anxious and a bit over the hand holding if you get me...LOL