Pros & Cons of FP

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Pros & Cons of FP
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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 10:23am

Ok you asked...you get


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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 1:10pm

Thats a great list M! Great start to sorting out your feelings on this.


And it does say something that you wanted to talk to him first thing this morning. Perhaps he is growing on you again, and the trust and depth of character is something that you need right now. After CP and all his crap, at the very least isnt it nice to have a stable man to talk to? He obviously cherishes you (he should!) and sometimes I think just feeling cherished is a wonderful thing.

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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 1:17pm

Good Girl. M! LOL!!!


Ok, one thing to keep in mind (from one former pessimest to another) the 'everything will be fine' mentality isn't always a bad thing.

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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 1:51pm

Thank you friends...So i called the com college I applied to to find out about me getting financial aid. They said last week they sent out a package to me since i was missing papers and i still havent gotten it. So the woman tells me looks like i got some funding (YIPPEE) they are just missing some signature pages and im on academic probation from 1991. She said i can just come in and meet with a counselor and tell them why i registered for 54 credits and only finished with 15 back in 91. I said i can tell you right now i was 19 and stupid...LOL She said that cleared it up come in and we will get me started for the spring semester...WOOOHOOOOO Do you know the first person I called but he didnt answer...damn fisherman! LOL


FP in all his glory!



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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 1:56pm

Oh M he is hot!! I love the picture! Not at ALL what I was visualizing he looked like! YAY on the financial assistance news!!!!!!

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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 3:03pm

Thanks Pac...heres a few more...the second one is not my favorite past time of his...hes to old for it and is going to get hurt! But he loves it...


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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 3:05pm
OMG that fish picture is so funny! That fish is so big it could EAT him! And the motorcycle hobbie....all I can say is Men and their Toys. Sigh!
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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sat, 10-04-2008 - 2:27pm
Just take it at the right speed and you'll be fine. He sounds like a good guy and everyone has their annoying little habits. I know that Ducks Fan and I talk every night before bed. It completes our day.
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 9:09pm
What a great way to do that, pro and con.
 
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Sun, 10-05-2008 - 2:21am

Ok... it's good to make a list and all.... but how about going back through the memory banks... Like this quote from you about FP:

"I plan on putting it all out there and letting him know how his empty promises, selfish and irresponsible lifestyle, lack of communication, adolescent mood swings have really put me off lately. Me turning my phone off this weekend was much needed down time for one on one play time with DD and i had a blast...IM EXHAUSTED but it was fun. I knwo i was wrong not to answer any of the calls but i was just not in the mindset to deal with a 43 year old male pouting and having a tantrum."

( http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsolomother/?msg=12633.1 )

Or this one:

"The prince and I (im now going to refer to him as FP for all future postings - frog prince and i think you will see why). We have been really cooling off in a major way. Im so beyond annoyed with him. We dont talk..not two words. Hes a mute and its exhausting. He says he doesnt want to say the wrong things. I know i snap at him but its usually over DD. He gets her really wound up and crazy when they play. She plays hard and she end sup jumping off furniture and hurling herself into him and while they are playing. Yes its great that she plays with him HOWEVER when i need some pack up with rules there is none and then he pouts like hes in a time out as well. Infuriating really. We went to the zoo dinner and we literally said two words the entire time. Im afraid its run its course..."

( http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsolomother/?msg=12521.1 )

Or this one:

"FP surfaced with a nasty call that obviously its not working out between us and i still have the same sh**** attitude i always had,"

( http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsolomother/?msg=13225.1 )

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So these types of things give me pause as to why you're entertaining the possibility of dating this boring, annoying and tantrum throwing guy? You have to ask yourself and answer it truthfully: Am I dating this guy because I'm interested in him, or just because no one else is showing interest in me?

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Mon, 10-06-2008 - 9:50am

Got what you are saying loud and clear. I do have others interested and truth be told i can only think about FP. Dont want to pursue anything with anyone else

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