Putting away my Leiderhosen ...
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Putting away my Leiderhosen ...
| Sun, 08-17-2008 - 11:18am |
Ah well, it was a fun fantasy (for all of us, lol) while it lasted.
Last nite, after a great phone call from Micha during the day, I recv'd an email, under his addy, from his girlfriend of 8 yrs. She informed me that he cheated with his wife, w/ her (& he told me he was divorced 7 yrs, so it makes sense timewise), & would "certainly cheat on you as well". She said she found out he'd been cheating recently w/ his secretery, & now was planning on cheating w/ me as well.
She was very nice, saying she was "no longer his fiance as of this moment", but she wanted to warn me he was a much different person than he appears to be.
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2X, this is the 2nd time. Last spring I went out with a guy twice - wasnt really into him but was giving him a 3rd chance ... when yep, hid live in gf called me.
I mean, what more can you do? You ask them if they are married - engaged - involved. They say no. You have their cell #, you can call them - no real major signs b/c a lot of people dont even have a home phone anymore - so thats not a red flag.
Anyway, at least I am realizing, more & more, many people are SO not who they seem to be!
Grrr....
Well, I can't say I'm surprised... a guy looking to date a woman in a foreign country that he's working in once a month... was a flag to me...
SUCKS that he tried to prey on you though.
Even without the email from the gf, you would've figured it out quickly, I'm sure.
Unfortunately, you got caught in it and that really sucks! I'm sorry!! Big hugs to you and let's just hope you don't make third a charm. Lot's of us have been really lucky not to run into this that often, because their are plenty that try it.
I guess always ask for a landline phone number.. See if they hesitate to give you that. If a guy lives alone, he wont have problems giving you his landline.
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