QOTW - what does slow mean to you?
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| Wed, 06-21-2006 - 6:09pm |
Steph just got a question from a poster on "what does slow mean" and I think that is a great topic for this board so I am posting for everyone to discuss. I have even had an occasion where a man I was dating wanted to go slow - and this meant something entirely different to him than to me although I didn't realize it at the time until after we broke up - he meant slow with his heart while I thought he meant slow with something else!!
I hope we get opinions from everyone - c'mon lurkers - we want your two cents worth too. Even if you see someone posts your opinion it is good to post it again so we can see what everyone thinks.
Now, this is not a fight or debate - there are NO wrong answers. Just want to see what everyone thinks "slow" means in a dating relationship. I think this is a great exercise so when you both say you want to go slow you will clarify that you are on the same page.
Slow could mean slow to commit, slow to have sex, slow to move in, not see each other too much, etc.
AND if you have tips for going slow that is even better!! LOL!!
Edited 6/21/2006 6:16 pm ET by cl-west1745

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OMG - this is GREAT GREAT GREAT, Shrimps!!!!!!!! Where was this piece 20 years ago for me? Probably the same place as for you, eh? In the syllabis for the school of hard knocks we both were about to take?
Anyway, I am MEMORIZING and agreeing with you.
Thanks for your generous posts and insight.
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