QOTW- which one would you choose?

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QOTW- which one would you choose?
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Sun, 07-16-2006 - 7:21pm

And why?


There are two men, one has a good income, would be a great father and is stable.


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Registered: 07-16-2006
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 7:53pm

STABLE STABLE STABLE!!! Good, solid, happy man would outshine Mr. Flash for me in a heartbeat.

Married the handsome, sexy, fun guy and ended up beaten, unhappy and broke. Beautiful child is the only reason I still must interact with him.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 9:37pm

This is probably the internal conflict of everyone around!! I do want stable, but I also want someone who is intellectually stimulating and fit. I don't have to have killer in bed or the life of the party.

Aren't we allowed to mix and match? ;-)

They definitely have to be "that into me" and want to be tied down eventually.

As long as #1 is somewhat fun and fit I would pick him. Is that an okay answer? Sorry to be difficult!!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 07-17-2006 - 1:27pm

Who can argue with a good solid happy man?

Okay - upon reflection, this one gets my vote!!

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Registered: 06-29-2005
Mon, 07-17-2006 - 2:47pm

one has a good income, would be a great father and is stable.

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Mon, 07-17-2006 - 8:56pm

Well, wow! What a tough decision. And, you know, it almost is appropriate for me. I guess what I mean by that is lately I've been thinking about this very thing. Do I choose the guy who is comfortable and wants to settle down and is very stable but just that, stable, or do I choose the guy who is fun fun fun but not necessarily comitted to anything long term?

Well, I have to think of my children, and they need more than fun all of the time, for short times. I choose stable. I don't need excitement all of the time. I choose a lifetime of stability and comfort over rare and possibly fleeting moments of bliss.

I'm sure, at my age, if I didn't have children, I'd make the other choice.

Moody- who's happy SHE is the stability in her children's lives, always


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Mon, 07-17-2006 - 11:08pm
Well of course I would have to choose the guy that has a little bit of money, would be a great father good with my family friends and my kids. I'm only 22 so I guess I wouldn't change it if I was younger, because I'm already young. Besides a guy who's great in the sack and makes me laugh until I'm breathless and doesn't know if they wanna be tied down, will always be that way..... with everyone.