Question of the week and Therapy Session

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Question of the week and Therapy Session
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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 8:51am
Ok, before I even begin to tell you about the events that took place last night. Let's all have a stab at how long the widower has been single. I know the answer, but can you guess it? I will let you know after we get a few guesses, with a very
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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 11:59am

Cat!!!!!


Wow, I was surprised at the answer...7 weeks!


Bless his heart- I can only imagine his pain. And you were so kind and caring and open, excatly what was needed. This subject and the friendship you will develop in near and dear to my heart as well for many reasons.


I've worked with Cancer patients for 8 years now. I'v developed friendships, the deepest ones I've ever had, the very strongest connections with them and their families. And you know this experience first hand. Talk about fate- Cat! I love that you were there to talk to him, even if you never talked again...you still gave him something last night that was truly a gift. You let him talk and relive some pain. I am so happy about that!


You know it well- having Cancer

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 12:05pm

It was the first one and it was incredible. VERY VERY inspiring and maybe the key to why I was able to really connect to him due to the prior seminar I attended


Yes yes YES!


Although "fate and destiny" can be questioned...I do firmly believe in life's Synchronicities-

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 2:31pm

OMG, so so SO sad. Can you IMAGINE dying of cancer, or anything, as you have BABIES growing up. I am crying just thinking of her pain, knowing she was leaving her babies. Ugh.


I am so glad you came into his life ... SEE???? It is fate. Who knows what will happen down the road - but you found one another for this reason. Your a good soul. xo

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 2:31pm
You are TOO freaking MUCH!

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 3:25pm

Wow, quite an amazing story myprecious!

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 4:24pm

OMGosh Rebecca, I am so struck by the saddness of it all. No wonder he has strange women bringing him casseroles. The whole situation struck me so hard, because it

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 7:58pm

That story makes us all really appreciate what we have right now. It makes the dating challenge seems piddly in contrast.

Glad to hear he called to thank you - that was nice. Hope you sleep well tonight.

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Sat, 03-08-2008 - 12:01am

That story makes us all really appreciate what we have right now. It makes the dating challenge seems piddly in contrast.


VERY VERY TRUE cl-west.

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Sat, 03-08-2008 - 9:52am

I'm so glad you went to the PT&D meet-up. You've inspired me to go seek out one here in my town.


SAME here pacsun!

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Sat, 03-08-2008 - 9:56am

The Law of Attraction goes hand in hand with PT&D so if you can join that group, your already in the right direction. I also attend LoA Meetups now.