question..dating and weekend w/kids

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question..dating and weekend w/kids
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Wed, 09-05-2007 - 5:34pm

Before even asking this question I wanted to say thanks...for the advice I have been recieving, the comradere, the laughs, the support. You all are really wonderful :o)

Here's my question. When you are dating someone and it becomes exclusive, what does or did your guy do when you had the kids for the weekend? Regarding nightlife, and the fact that SO still needs to have a life even when I am at home with DD. We do some things all together (DD, him and I) but I am trying to take that slowly.

For instance last weekend I had my DD, and so in the evenings I was home with her, early, you know..bed times and all. Blue Eyes is a social guy and I don;t expect him to stay at his house, home all evening just because I can't go out.

My guy loves live music and dancing, but I'm not thrilled at the idea of encouraging him to go there without me. The idea of other ladies dancing or talking with my guy makes me a little uncomfortable!
He has a good bunch of friends, and he likes to go their places to socialize. With the exception of one really flirtacious girl who also hangs out there, I think he can at least go there and hang out when we can't be out togehter.

Just wondering, when you're at the point of seeing each other regularly, how does your SO handle it when you need and want to spend the time with your kids? What do they do with their time?

~Pacific~

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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 6:42pm

~Pacific~
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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 9:35pm

Since my relationship is long distance..theres ALOT of nights that we dont see eachother, but..we do talk on the phone all of them nights. ;) lol for a few hours a day........LOL

Also, he comes and stays the night alot too, while the kids are home. :)



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