questions for that rare guy (t-bone)

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questions for that rare guy (t-bone)
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 1:00pm

What is the t-bone part of your handle significant of?


And a few more serious questions if you'd care to answer. I have asked a few other guys friends, but one more opinion will add to my dataset.


Why would a guy flirt like mad, really come on strong, respond to you and then ...STOP dead in his tracks?


And the reverse...


When someone doesn't "see" you for a couple of years and then suddenly notices, what's up with that?


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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:17pm

"I'm sorry if this seems rude to anyone, but I am JUST ROLLING ON THE FLOOR with laughter right now! MAN, is this a fantastic thread. LOL.

It's always been known that men are steered by the penis! LOL, sorry, but it seems to be the nutshell of what Brian was talking about.

I can't stop laughing. I am just dying in my corner of the world. Tomorrow you will read "Crazy American dies of laughter in Germany. Investigators still at a loss at what caused this phenonemon."

SEE????? I *TOLD* you I was funny!

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:19pm

"It's always been known that men are steered by the penis! LOL, sorry, but it seems to be the nutshell of what Brian was talking about."

Actually, to be more precise, I believe men are driven by their testicles, where the hormones are produced.

The penis is just a deliver system!

LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL!!!!

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:30pm

no one else thinks it's kind of sad?


I'm pretty sure it's true...but it's still kind of sad.

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:35pm

Why is this sad?

Every other animal species on this planet has the identical behavior.

It's just nature, the way it was intended.

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:40pm
I answered above. We are SO not natural...look around. We make everything in our culture and our environment NOT natural. WE change and modify everything we possibly can.
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:41pm
Brian is right, it's nature intended. That is why I have always believe (but let myself get side tracked) that until a certain age (biological clock syndrom, which I tend to believe is around forties-mid-forties((the mid-life crisis))), that a large extent (not all, I DIDN'T SAY ALL. LOL) cheat on their women.
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:45pm
I'd say that means it's a tendency, but not the only thing that drives men or us. Or we'd just be screwing all day when we weren't eating to survive. We wouldn't have art, or music, or literature. There is an aspect to humans that is different.
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 5:58pm

I'm with you.

And I'm sorry, I never have and I never will buy the biologically driven theory.

If I did, I would be aching to have another child. If I did, I would have WANTED TO have child after child after child after child, guaranteeing the survival of our species, as biologically, female mammals are driven to reproduce as often as they can. Also - if I were like numerous mammals (cats, for example) - I would have sex with every men who came my way in the hopes of getting pregnant.

There is one thing separating us from other species. Free will. Choice.

I have never, and will never, buy the "men are driven by their testicles" theory - or that biologically - men are hardwired to spread their seed in as many women as they can. I don't buy it. Actually - I always have and always will consider it to be the lamest excuse I've ever heard for poor behavior.

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 6:26pm

I think it would be sad it it were COMPLETELY true, and I know for a fact it isn't true completely based on my DH's behavior (which I don't want to get into too deeply at this time)


What I PERSONALLY don't like are the stereotypes themselves. For me, it set me up for a HUGE disappointment that I am still recovering from. How's THAT for a laugh??? LOL!

Becky

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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 6:27pm
Hey, ME TOO on the biologically driven thing. I've got my one child and I am pregnant again accidentally and then for all intents and purposes I AM DONE!!!! ;)
Becky

Becky