questions for that rare guy (t-bone)

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Registered: 01-05-2005
questions for that rare guy (t-bone)
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Wed, 03-09-2005 - 1:00pm

What is the t-bone part of your handle significant of?


And a few more serious questions if you'd care to answer. I have asked a few other guys friends, but one more opinion will add to my dataset.


Why would a guy flirt like mad, really come on strong, respond to you and then ...STOP dead in his tracks?


And the reverse...


When someone doesn't "see" you for a couple of years and then suddenly notices, what's up with that?


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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 6:34pm

ROTFLMAO!!!!!

"What I PERSONALLY don't like are the stereotypes themselves. For me, it set me up for a HUGE disappointment that I am still recovering from. How's THAT for a laugh??? LOL!"

SO TRUE! So can I call my ex and tell him "you know, biologically, there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with you!"??????

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Registered: 07-10-2001
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 12:06am

"We wouldn't have art, or music, or literature."

But look at a far majority of art, literature and music, and what do you find? The primary topic is sex (or love).

It was Robin Williams in Dead Poets Society who answered the question, "Why did man invent language and especially poetry?....To woo women."

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 10:00am

>>>I'd say that means it's a tendency, but not the only thing that drives men or us. Or we'd just be screwing all day when we weren't eating to survive. We wouldn't have art, or music, or literature. There is an aspect to humans that is different.<<<

The way my bf puts it, after sex he is much more able to focus on reading or other activities that interest him. Without sex, his penis and getting some attention for it takes #1 priority and all else is forgotten. This doesn't bother me one bit. I am more than happy to give his penis some attention (I want the same things he wants) and then go to dinner, read, talk, cuddle, watch a movie, take a walk.... In fact, a similar thing happens for me. If I am horny I start to fantasize and I either need sex (or to take care of myself) and then I can go back to focusing on what I need to focus on (work, reading, whatever).

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 11:28am

And women use it to tell men to back off, not rape them, not excuse their sexual behavior as "natural"...


And blacks use it to document their mistreatment


And it's used to show great wars and social developments.


If most of it is sex and for most of history men were the only ones allowed to be painters, poets, etc...it just means that the male perspective might be predominantly about sex. You're discounting half the human race...like most of history. Just because men say so doesn't make it true.


I don't think man invented poetry or language, women are the most apt communicators...I think they developed it. :) HIStory is truly told from a one sided point of view...


You see what you want, but not all that's there.


And if you choose not to see, we can just agree to disagree.


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