Quick! He is scaring me a bit!
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| Thu, 04-13-2006 - 12:47pm |
Hi all!
For those of you who read my introduction below, you know that last weekend Amber and I went on a date with a very nice guy, but that after the date I realized that I just am not ready for that yet and want to just focus on her.
I communicated that to this guy via email on Monday and also told him that I don't think we can continue to communicate because we met on OLD and therefore his interest in a relationship would be hanging over us and I am not comfortable with that. He emailed back that he was cool with it - supportive and completely understanding of where I am coming from and the fact that I don't want a relationship with him. BUT, he continues sending me emails with jokes and about his daughter. Although I responded to the first one saying I appreciated his understanding, have a good life, etc., I have not responded to anything since.
Today at work I received a package from him of email jokes that he printed off for me. He also included another letter about how he understands and he is not stalking me, but he would like to talk to me, etc.. I am a bit scared because this means he went to the trouble of gathering all of this stuff together for me and then researching my employer's address to send this stuff. I never would have thought the "stalking" word unless he had said it. Now he has me weirded out - is he going to be waiting outside when I leave work so that "we can talk?" Is he going to be hiding out somewhere when I leave work and follow me to Amber's daycare and to our home so he has all of that information?? Am I paranoid?
I would love some advice on this ladies! What do you think? I'm a bit scared!
Thanks!
Samantha

Samantha,
I imagine you are terribly nervous.
Hey Samantha,
Any news from Mr. Scary?
I emailed him a nasty email warning him to keep away. I heard back from him that he understands and will not contact me again, that I am a great person and wishing me all the best with my daughter. So, hopefully that is it. Today is the first day I have been back in my office since the whole thing freaked me a bit. I will be alert, but I am not going to let it control my life.
Thanks for asking!
Samantha
Samantha,
Im glad he says he got the hint.