Quick - what you think of this one1

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Quick - what you think of this one1
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Thu, 02-28-2008 - 3:26pm

he is writing from match - here is his profile:

Hi, first, I must say that I am very family oriented. Family is very important to me. I am a high energy person. I like to do things that keep me busy. I usually dont like to sit and watch TV. I like to workout, bike ride, ice skate, play tennis, take yoga. go to concerts. I played ice hockey in college. I also enjoy watching some sports. Fitness is very important to me. I workout 5 days a week at the gym. I used to take yoga 3 times a week. I also eat very healthy. I like to cook healthy meals at home. But I do like cake! I was a Police Officer for 8 years when I first relocated to the Boca Raton area after college. I later became a massage therapist and personal trainer for 8 years. I am now involved in real estate. I work for a big residential company and am also involved in a family real estate business involving rental properties in New york City. Music is my second biggest love. I love to dance, go to outdoor concerts, and shows. I love R&B, jazz, the oldies. Almost any motown. I am a soulful person. I was a drummer growing up so anything with a good beat I like! I am sympathetic and empathetic. I am also very passionate. I love movies. I even took acting lessons at one time. I am a hard worker. If I set my mind to do something I dont stop until I am finished. I usually like to do things that most people would never think of doing. For example, a train ride to Miami just for fun. I like to walk the beach in the evening or at night. I have a hammock and there is nothing more relaxing then laying on the hammock and looking up at the stars in the night sky. I also love the ocean. I usually take a cruise every year to places like Cozumel, Belize, Grand Caman, San Juan, St Thomas, St Marteen. I just really love life! Im looking for a women who has some of what I just described! She should be soulful and passionate like me. Family oriented and have a good heart. Energetic and active. sexy and sweet. And honesty is high on my list. Just be honest! Why cant people do that! Life is to short for lies. And one more thing. She has to love to cuddle while watching a movie!! I believe in fate. And love is the strongest force in the universe!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 7:46am
Yes, like he's trying to PROVE something.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 7:48am

Nah, i disagree. *I* am a huge believer in fate. I dont let go of personal responsibility, but i DO beleive we are handed situations, people, etc .... & THAT is the fate part. What we DO with it later? THATS our part.


eg: it was fate for me to be Avereys mother ... somehow.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 7:50am
roflmao about thinking of us all. He has NO idea he is dating MANY women .... AND MARK!

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 9:33am

Yes, we are so close to our children that it does feel that God (or 'fate' if you're not a believer) brought us together.


I believe that our CHOICES bring opportunities - put us in a position to have choices.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:06am

"I believe that our CHOICES bring opportunities - put us in a position to have choices. A series of small decisions add up to large opportunities."

I like this very much!!

And I don't believe in huge romantic fantasies and blind lust and reacting to chemistry and infatuation and saying I don't have a choice I love him. I do realize that it is okay to have chemistry but I choose WHO I will be with based on my head!

Now for the big one - to determine if this is a silly statement to say he thinks match can bring people together (as in fate or a better chance for meeting) Or does he live his life without responsibility? That is why I have to date I guess! LOL!!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 10:13am
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Registered: 10-10-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 11:25am

I believe in fate as well--I do believe in a higher power and I think that higher power pushes us to certain things because that thing is what we are fated to do (or have.)

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 12:02pm

I'm not sure I believe in fate and I really hope there is no such thing as fate.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 12:22pm

The old "cuddling by fire with a glass of wine" OLD cliche' but people seem to want to declare that in their profiles.

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 1:06pm

Point taken Mark... funny things though is that a fair share of the men on OLD (that I have seen anyway) do put that in their profiles.