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| Thu, 02-28-2008 - 3:26pm |
he is writing from match - here is his profile:
Hi, first, I must say that I am very family oriented. Family is very important to me. I am a high energy person. I like to do things that keep me busy. I usually dont like to sit and watch TV. I like to workout, bike ride, ice skate, play tennis, take yoga. go to concerts. I played ice hockey in college. I also enjoy watching some sports. Fitness is very important to me. I workout 5 days a week at the gym. I used to take yoga 3 times a week. I also eat very healthy. I like to cook healthy meals at home. But I do like cake! I was a Police Officer for 8 years when I first relocated to the Boca Raton area after college. I later became a massage therapist and personal trainer for 8 years. I am now involved in real estate. I work for a big residential company and am also involved in a family real estate business involving rental properties in New york City. Music is my second biggest love. I love to dance, go to outdoor concerts, and shows. I love R&B, jazz, the oldies. Almost any motown. I am a soulful person. I was a drummer growing up so anything with a good beat I like! I am sympathetic and empathetic. I am also very passionate. I love movies. I even took acting lessons at one time. I am a hard worker. If I set my mind to do something I dont stop until I am finished. I usually like to do things that most people would never think of doing. For example, a train ride to Miami just for fun. I like to walk the beach in the evening or at night. I have a hammock and there is nothing more relaxing then laying on the hammock and looking up at the stars in the night sky. I also love the ocean. I usually take a cruise every year to places like Cozumel, Belize, Grand Caman, San Juan, St Thomas, St Marteen. I just really love life! Im looking for a women who has some of what I just described! She should be soulful and passionate like me. Family oriented and have a good heart. Energetic and active. sexy and sweet. And honesty is high on my list. Just be honest! Why cant people do that! Life is to short for lies. And one more thing. She has to love to cuddle while watching a movie!! I believe in fate. And love is the strongest force in the universe!

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how many of your ex's liked to cuddle?
My answer won't shed much light on the general male population because I wouldn't date a man who didn't like to cuddle.
Yah I suspect guys put cuddling on their profile since they are smart enough not to say what they really want is sex and that's the only way to get it.
"Not to mention it gives the impression that they/we are willing to "take it slow" and sex is not the only thing we have in mind.
I agree with Angie- in my experience my exs have liked to "cuddle" but so often to them that would lead them into automatically assuming "more will follow" so to speak. The term "cuddle" in my mind means being close together and affectionate and touching but without any pretenses or "goal" in mind. This was a huge bone of contention for my exh. He would say he just did not understand how
That and a $29.95 will get you a month's subscription to Match.
ROFL!!!
~s~
Well, the "fate" is not looking too good - he just called and said something came up for tomorrow and would have to meet late tomorrow - and I said no. Because 9PM meeting on a work night 30 minutes away doesn't work for me. He also said tonight - and I said no (I have to run 2 hours and have DS). So maybe Monday.
I think something really did come up for him - he has older parents here - or maybe something for work. And Monday is only a few more days. So we will see.
Angie. Im so sorry for your loss, again. I cant imagine that feeling - not seeing, or comprehending, a "reason" for it. It doesnt change "my" belief in fate - but i know that it would be MUCH harder for me, i suppose, to beleive in fate or a reason for everything ... if i lost what you did. Or God forbid, lost my child.
(((hugs)))
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
I dont think i COULD be in a relationship w/ someone who wasnt affectionate. I am VERY affectionate, & yes, love to cuddle on a couch - but i dont want to state that in a profile. Or READ it in a profile. I dont know, its something thats too intimate or something, to me. I mean you dont read "I love to french kiss" in a profile, but its an assumption, right? that people LIKE to do that, when in a relationship?
Anyway, as much as I dont want to THINK ABOUT IT, lol, my XH was very cuddly & affectionate - even after completely berating me & verbally abusing me, or worse, & he would think he could snuggle up to me in bed & hold me while he slept. I can STILL palpate the REVULSION those last few months. Literal, REVULSION when he would hug me from behind in bed. & it wasnt for sex at all (that ended LONG b4 the end of our marriage) ... but God - i would just lie there, phsyically ill, SO stressed, trying to slow my breathing down, trying to not hate him with every sense of my soul, trying not to think of my escape from such a horrid marriage,
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
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