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| Mon, 12-11-2006 - 3:26pm |
I am 31 have 3 kids and my husband moved out 1 month ago. He is always away on bussiness so not really affecting my kids or me. I can actual breathe. Met a nice guy at the gym is it wrong to be thinking of someone else so soon? He is married but having problems. He is hot!

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I dont think its wrong to be looking already..I was looking about 2 weeks after mine left :) I actually met the guy I am dating then :)
Although..I do think its wrong to be interested in a married man, I was cheated on..and it really hurts even if they ARE having problems..he should have the "balls" to leave her before anything happens with you and him. If he isnt willing to do that maybe you should check out the "my affair support" board.
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If it was me I would try to keep dating more on the casual side until the divorce is final. I would definitely NOT go with a married man or even a separated man.
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well I wouldnt touch a married man..and it really hurts being cheated on..no matter HOW bad things are going..it hurts, so if he wants to be with you...he should leave her, even if it is too soon in your relationship for him to leave her FOR you, if he plans on being with anyone else..i suggest getting him to leave..its less painful than being cheated on.
hopefully things work out for you :)
we are going to dinner this weekend i will talk to him but what are the right words to say without sounding pushy?
You asked why would you want to give that up? My guess is that the longer you wait is the more intertwined with him you become - only to be disappointed that she takes precedence over you. It is not going to be enough that he does the nail polish remover routine. You are going to want a relationship that grows and can go somewhere.
And if he is willing to cheat on his wife, that makes him not such a good catch for the long term. What he does to her now he will eventually do with you.
What I would say is that I have to take a break right now because I don't want to be on a slipperty slope where people get hurt. I think you have to stop all contact until he figures out what he wants to do.
Good luck and keep us posted - hope this helps!
You deserve someone so much better - nevermind for what you have been through with your own failed marriage and upcoming divorce. Take the time to get your life to a peaceful state and then set your goal much higher. This will bring happiness. Because we can all get what we want when we are willing to say we want it, wait for it and not settle for less.
The wrong man can ruin your life - or wreak a lot of havoc in it. No one (being alone) really can't do damage and it makes you very strong so you are not willing to have an upset. The right person will bring much happiness.
Keep us posted!
Stephanie
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