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| Mon, 12-11-2006 - 3:26pm |
I am 31 have 3 kids and my husband moved out 1 month ago. He is always away on bussiness so not really affecting my kids or me. I can actual breathe. Met a nice guy at the gym is it wrong to be thinking of someone else so soon? He is married but having problems. He is hot!

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I read this whole thread and it sounds a little unusual. First, you mention meeting a married guy in the gym. It sounded from the first post that you had only just met him. In subsequent posts, you reveal that he showed up to your house with finger nail polish remover when you spilled nail polish. So, he knows where you live. You talk to him on the phone. And, your husband only moved out 1 month ago???
Some of the posts are typed with proper upper and lower case letters. Some all lower case. The ALL CAPS posts have grammatical errors and are not the same "voice" as the other posts.
If the story is legit and you're asking for actual advice, trying to date that married guy after your husband just left is a horrible idea. I will say two words on that "Custody Battle". For the 2.5 years that my exh kept me running back and forth to the county courthouse, I acted as a nun so that not even one speck of mud could have been thrown into the proceedings.
Ok - I am new here, and not dating yet. I was on the "Mismatched libidos" site - as I had a husband who wouldn't touch me.
The story Malibugirl is telling would be hard to say "no" to , especially if you came out of some type of abusive-type marriage or relationship.
The fact that this guy would care that her kid spilled something on her couch, and would make an effort to help her is huge. My ex probably hasn't done anything unselfish in 5+ years. I would completely be a sucker for any act of kindness.
I don't know if that is where Malibugirl is coming from - but I say "go for it" . I hope he is not lying about being "separated" - make sure you know what you are getting into.
All I know, is I have been lonely for far too long, and if opportunity knocks, I am going to open the door. Sorry if I appear "easy" - but life is too short.
I hope it works out:)
Yes, imo, VERY bad.
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