Relationship Milestone

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Relationship Milestone
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Mon, 09-15-2008 - 2:39pm

We had our first, real, honest-to-goodness, I-wanna-walk-away argument this weekend.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 8:52am

Sounds like you guys weathered what could have been a big storm, well.


That poor woman!

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 9:07am

Hey Mark, was thinking about this last night and well its like Pac said...since you are in an intimate relationship with this woman her issue becomes a we issue. You have to share in every aspect of a person when you are in a relationship otherwise you just come off as a selfish insensitive boob. And I know thats not you. I totally respect and admire you for owning your feelings but sometimes you can loose sight of stepping back and compromising. That falls into the "have to tell" position. You are right you dont HAVE to tell but its nice to share from the other persons stand point. It validates our feelings and makes us feel wanted, appreciated and respected. I can only say she had a massive blow to the heart and like any wound that heals over time there is still scar tissue and if its banged into its going to flare up a little. Trust isnt something that comes with dating its built through time and actions. I think you guys made it through well, just wanted to throw my 2 cents at ya. Happy healing to you both...and making up

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