ROFLMAO, you girls gotta get a life! ;)

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ROFLMAO, you girls gotta get a life! ;)
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 8:40pm

I would have posted 10' ago, but i had to read thru your crazy thread! You are all too funny. & i FOUND THE SPANX!

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 8:47pm

There you are - YEAH!! Our Rebecca is back. I think you are now officially voted the best date story teller around here. We were looking forward to your story all day!! And the last minute spanx thing was just hilarious.

Okay - so now we are waiting for date number two! Greedy birds that we are - eh?

Can't wait to hear the rest of it. Sounds like a good first date! I agree that you can give him a bit of a chance on the physical thing - as long as he doesn't turn you off it can definitely improve when he treats you the right way.

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 8:59pm

We all should get a life but for today we are living vicariously through you!

April

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 9:05pm
Oh that is a great first date in my book! I have had some very hot dates ( ha its true) but the ones that turned into love were always the ones where I didnt feel the physical right away. I dont even know why that is true but it is definitely how it has always worked for me. i always felt very natural around them and they had a way of making me feel like we were already friends. I felt this way about my current bf. He has said he was right away attracted but for me, I was just happy being around him. The attraction started when we had chatted and entertained each other enough to finally stop the constant chatter and have a quiet lunch. Then I wanted to touch him suddenly and the rest is history.
I feel very hopeful for you about this one. He sounds so engaging and I like that he has a solid relationship with his ex. Two crazy exes would be over the top impossible!
Congrats and thanks for providing enormous suspense for all of the girls here. What fun:)
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 9:17pm
That sounds like a fantastic first date!! He sounds like a really laid back, wonderful kinda guy! Can't wait to hear about the sequel!

 

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 9:59pm

Thanks girls. Yeah, i would say it was successful.


So, here's some of the funny stuff - NOW, keep in mind my sense of humor & his, AND i will keep this PG-13 rated, but parts of it were sort of "R-ish", lol.


One of my PET PEEVES is guys who think having a freaking hot tub is some romantic thing women drool over. Well, in one of our 1st conversations, he made some innocent sort of reference to his hot tub - but it was obvious he was trying to impress me/turn me on ... whatever. So today in talking about bad dates, he kept saying things like "Yeah, so even though she ended up in my hot tub" ... or "when we got out of the hot tub" ... so i nonchalantly said "you KNOW, hot tub comments are on my Top 3 things that are the Kiss of Death list

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 10:34pm

LOL Rebecca! I have to say, I nearly spewed my tea when I read about Joan Jett. ;-) That's funny!!!


I'm not sure what is the connection between men and loving hot tubs either, but I know Hiker seems to like them alot. For him though- it's the way the super-hot water relaxes his muscles. Although it CAN be a sexy thing too- if we're together. hehe


Glad you had a good date, and was so entertained! Here's to more fun ones for you guys, even if you only become friends out of the deal!


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 10:37pm

You are soooo funny!

April

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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 10:45pm

Yaye!!

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Fri, 01-11-2008 - 12:28am

So glad you got to enjoy yourself Rebecca! Next the trap door! Just tell him to wear it backwards ;-).

Thanks for the credit on my "teaching" on not focusing on physical attraction right off the bat but I'm sure you've had enough experiences to know that. I think the key with CNDG was that it was NOT a date for romance when I went to meet with her.

Keep them stories coming!

HUGS,
Mark

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Fri, 01-11-2008 - 5:28am

Great story Rebecca. Seems like this was a success. You should definitely continue seeing him. It is hard to say about physical side unless you spend more intimate time with him. If nothing else he may be a very good friend to have.


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