SaD day.

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SaD day.
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 12:19pm
Ok so I decided to move on with my life and chalk it up to experience. And I kind of had my sights set on someone that I work with that told me he was kind of interested in me a few months ago. We have been so busy that we have not been able to talk about what is going on in our lives like we used to. He sent me an email telling me what has been going on. Evidentially he has been dating someone else since. (I didn't ask him to wait for me he has to move on with his life too!!!) So Chalk this up to another lesson learned. I didn't think that it was going to work out with Chris and I but was hanging on to a thread that it might. in the mean time Alan was waiting for me but then I saw things were getting better with Chris and I an thought that we might have been getting married later so Alan moved on with his life and I can't blame him. So I guess I'll have to figure out how to find someone. I never have been that much in to OLD and don't have much time any time during the week to go out other than Fridays and usually my friends are either working on fri nights or don't have a babysitter. SOO what now
Poll my friends see is they know any Single guys they may want to introduce me to.
GO sit at a bar by my self and see if there is anyone there
ask my brothers (they are around my age (adopted brothers)) if they have any friends.
any ideas Any one.
I usually am on the internet at work a lot but don't have the time or privacy for that matter to look for online singles and can't do it at work because sites are blocked.
Any Ideas???? PLEASE
Jules
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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: k8tbugsmom
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:01pm

I think some alone time may be the ticket for you, instead of rushing into something new. Especially since you saw this guy for 3 months and he was not ready to offer anything to you. You should consider taking time to reflect on finding people that meet your needs and what it is you really want. Keep busy and hook up with girlfriends. The hardest part in the initial alone stage is how you sound in your post: "I gotta have someone phase". Believe me, did that FOREVER. If you give it 2-4 weeks it will wear off and you will stop feeling the need that someone will complete you if you allow yourself to be completed. I'm sorry nothing worked out, but I believe in a reason for everything.

Big hugs,
Catherine