Saw my ex-BIL on match last night

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Registered: 05-13-2009
Saw my ex-BIL on match last night
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Sat, 04-24-2010 - 8:03pm

This is the BIL with whom I literally had a physical fight because he attacked me....while the ex watched and did nothing except when he saw that I was starting to hurt his brother.

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 8:28am

What a tool--shaving 4 years off his age. I keep reading bad things about profiles and men related to OLD....makes me want to put my head in the sand, hide and not even TRY to find a date.


GL when you're back online with OLD dear!! Are you going to do POF, Match, or a combination of OLD sites?


I'm curious what ppl think yields the best results. I'm dabbling on POF now, but I feel like there are a lot of cheap-ohs and duds on there since it's free. I got marked as a 'favorite' by someone with no photo and their login name

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Sun, 04-25-2010 - 9:44am
Recently I was at the book store and they had some kind of demonstration of kids from a music school playing. AAAH! When they did the drums it was really loud! And some people were there actually trying to study.
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 12:34pm
I'm on POF and Match. I get more responses on POF than Match, but from totally unlikely guys. 20 somethings looking to text, guys just looking to hookup etc... I just laugh especially at their titles! They seem to have no clue! I think, You are successful with this? Obviously not. That was were I met the guy I had a date with last weekend. But who knows? There might be one guy who is my type.
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 12:40pm
I wouldn't contact him, because then he will know you are on there. I saw CK on Match. He is using an old picture. I immediately hid his profile, I didn't even view it. I did want to e him and make suggestions such as: You must enjoy being part of a threesome. My best girl friend will always mean more to me than you. Lateness is the norm, who cares about your time. and finally...you will be fifth in line of my priorities, work, S, chores, and cats will be ahead of you unless you want to help me do my chores!
Good luck with the books. Take what you think is important to you. No one book can get this right, or else there would be only one book on the shelf.
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Registered: 05-13-2009
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 4:42pm

"Are you going to do POF, Match, or a combination of OLD sites?"


I will get back on match. G and I met on there, and in general I think I had a good experience with their services. Not to mention, match's headquarters is located here, so there are a LOT of singles listed.

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Registered: 01-26-2009
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 6:27pm

"I got marked as a 'favorite' by someone with no photo and their login name

Faith is not blind; it's visionary


Lee

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Registered: 05-13-2009
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 10:21pm

"Is that what everyone means by having a thick skin about this OLD?