Second Date and it was sooo great......

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Second Date and it was sooo great......
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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 2:20pm
I'm walking on air today, as I had my second date with this man that I'm just crazy about. I had a date with him last Wednesday and I couldn't explain it, but I was just mesmerized by him. I had a date with someone else Thursday, someone else again on Friday and my second date with this guy last night. While I was going out with these other guys, I couldnt' think of anyone else but this one. The guy from Friday night was a second date too and he wanted to know where "we" were going. I told him I just didn't know and I thought it was too soon to think about it. However, when I went out with this guy on Saturday night, I realized it wasnt' that I thought it was too soon to think about being with the guy from Friday night, it was because I didn't feel anything. With the guy from Saturday night I was dreaming about being with him forever. LOL. It was too funny.
He asked to pick me up at my house last night and I was so surprised. I haven't had anyone do that since my x husband and I started dating. It was soo nice not to meet someone someplace, but to be picked up like a real date. It was such a great evening with a wonderful romantic flair. He picked me up at 6 and we got home at 1am. He walked me to the front door and gave me the most ROMANTIC kiss. It was just so awesome. I had goose bumps and everything. He called me this afternoon to say hello and that he thought we had a pretty wonderful night. "sigh"...... ME TOO.
Now I just have to bang my head and remember to keep dating other guys and stay focused on not getting involved too quickly, but to keep things slow and fun.
I could share forever and tell you all so much, but then it would be boring. LOL. Anyway, we have sooo much in common (our kids go to the same school too)and I just had to share that I had an awesome time and I hope that maybe this time, I can make this one last.

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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 2:39pm
Boring? NOPE! We like details. Especially those of us lying on the couch for the 3rd strait day! lol
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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 2:43pm

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww... you SOUND like you're walking on air! Too cute and gooey!!!!! When do you see him again????

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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 6:32pm

Go, go, go!


Wow, what an action packed weekend.

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Sun, 09-28-2008 - 8:59pm

"I could share forever and tell you all so much, but then it would be boring. "

Boring? Nah. Were all ears. Besides I want to know what it is about him that makes him so cool and gives you that feeling.

Laurie

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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 9:41am
Awww how lovely!
Sounds like he might be feeling the same way about you :o) When do you see him again?
Good luck!
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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 10:34am

What a nice update to a great sounding week. How exciting for you! So what was the connection? What do you remember the most?

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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 10:44am

This is great!!

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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 10:52am

Hey I like details!!! hahaha Not boring at all!


Sounds like a very dreamy second date! Can't wait to read more about it all unfolding!!

 

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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 11:24am

Wow Cat, you sound like you're floating!

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Mon, 09-29-2008 - 2:03pm

Awe! It's nice to know everyone wants to know a little more, so here's the scoop:

He contacted me per Match.com. He wrote a really nice email and said he thought we were very similiar and if I would take a peek at his and decide. So I did.
It was very interesting. He has two children, he'll be 45 at the end of Oct, so we are 8 years apart, since my birthday is a week after his (he's a scorpion like me too), He is very intellectual. He wears glasses, so it makes him extremely handsome in his own way. I noticed that he was extremely well written, but also had bits of humor that was quite funny, but not over the top. The entire profile sparked my interest. The only thing was, I noticed he was currently separated, so I hesitated a bit, but then I thought... why not?
We wrote each other a little here and there. Maybe half a dozen short emails and then he asked me out two weeks ago. However, both he and I became sick at the same time, so we both postponed. Then alex's birthday came around. We scheduled for Monday, but then I got busy and had to postpone it again for Wednesday. He never contacted me and I was almost going to cancel, because I figured he wasn't "that" interested. However, I forced myself to go anyway. We met at this English pub. I love English pubs, so that was a huge plus. The moment we sat down together, the conversation just kept flowing. We just talked for a few hours and ate dinner. It was supposed to be just a glass of beer, but none of us wanted to leave, so we made it into dinner. After dinner, we sat for awhile and then it was really funny, because I somehow made some sort of move and suddenly he sprung up, because he thought I was ready to go. LOL. I wasn't, but then I thought "Well, it's pretty late now and I need to get home". We spent a little over 2 hours and then he walked me to my car and it was a little awkward because he didn't hug me, nor did he mention anything about us seeing each other again, so I just quickly hugged him and left.

The next day was Thursday and I wrote him a email and thanked him for the evening. I told him that it was not my intention for him to pay for dinner, so that if he did decide that we should meet again (hint, hint) that I would like to reciprocate. Well, he quickly wrote me back and said that he "definitely" wants to see me again and that he'll call me later. Which he did. He called that evening and wanted to know if I was free for Saturday night. He asked to take me to this cooking type fair. Since we both love to cook, it sounded great.
That is when he asked to pick me up from my house. I thought that was so neat. LOL

Ok, so we still hadn't discussed our past or anything. He picked me up Saturday, we joked around about stuff when we walked down to the fair and then we walked around to different stands, etc. He suddenly just grabbed my hand as we were walking. It was really nice. We had these great conversations about everything and then he suggested that he shows me my neighborhood a little better and some great restaurants that they have.

So we went to my neighborhood where they had this great restaurant. We sat outside (they have a great outside setting that is kind of romantic with huts and tiki torches), because it was still so warm. We just talked forever and at some point, He told me why he divorced and the reason it took him so long to make that decision. I told him about both Alex's and Nina's dad. Not much, but I just told him that I thought he should know. It made me nervous, because my children having two different dads is always a little bit of a difficult situation. He was so nice about it, but of course, I just couldn't be sure if it shocked him or if he was really ok with it. Then he just reached over and kissed me. AND WOW! It just made me go all goose bumpy and my heart skipped. I felt like a little kid. It was sooo nice. :)
We continued to talk forever and then he took me home to my door step, but never said anything about seeing me again. He kissed me good night and said he better leave or it could get dangerous. :)
He left and I woke up the next day being on cloud nine. I wrote him another thank you note and told him that I had a wonderful evening. He wrote back and said it was definitely wonderful. He called me shortly thereafter to just say hi, but it was a short two minute call. Nothing about seeing me again. :(
This morning, he sent me a text message to ask me how my morning was. We wrote a little back and forth, but still nothing about seeing me. :(
That's ok. I think he will. I just have to be patient and remember to keep dating other people and keep my mind off of it. The less time I take to think about it, the better.
So that's the scoop. Still no third date, but I'm trying to maintain optimisum!

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