She Thinks I'm Interrupting Her?

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Registered: 10-14-2007
She Thinks I'm Interrupting Her?
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Sun, 10-14-2007 - 11:05pm

Hello Ladies, I am a single, attractive 38 year old man who has never been married and has no children myself.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 2:13pm

I haven't read the other responses but my opinion is NEXT!!

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Registered: 05-29-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:07pm
Could be one of many reasons, but the bottom line
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Registered: 07-31-2006
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 5:47pm

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 6:26pm

if this relationship is over with her and her "ex", then there is no need for him to be visiting with the child in her home.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 6:37pm
You see that was also my thought - there is no way I would let a baby go somewhere else - what if his place is dirty or not child proof? And I also breastfed - so long visits away from home would not have worked for me, either.
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Registered: 10-14-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 10:55pm

You know, it NEVER ceases to amaze me how you girls seem to know EXACTLY what is going on in each other's head.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 11:58pm
Well, now you can say you have the experience and can learn from it what you can and move on.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 12:42am

Im sorry! But i think, based on all I read, that its for the best. She seemed a bit selfish in the way you re-iterated what she said & how she said it .... I mean, we have ALL been moms - maybe not all single moms at the times our kiddos were babies, but still, she seemed to give YOU nothing.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 6:01am

I am sorry to hear of your ending. I know it is sad and not what you wanted but you did give it your very best. The thing about relationships is that we cannot control them or the other person. The other person has to fill up their half of the love seat. It is never a pretty picture when we have to beg, push and pray while they do a bad or no job for that.

At any rate, 38 is just a number and is young in these times. And there are plenty of women out there who want to get married. You just have to find the match that is right for you.

Keep us posted, okay?

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 9:04am

I'm sorry that you had to hear that and that she couldn't just come out and say what she really felt. Instead she decided to be a coward and hoped you got the hint. That has nothing to do with you, but with her and I think you are better off, even though it might be hurtful now. I also want to commend you that you took the courage to come up on this board and to express your feelings and concerns. That takes an incredible courage to come jump into a mainly womans forum, even though we have some great guys on here as well.


I hope you stick around and give us some of your dating stories. You don't have to be single with children. We have married ladies, some who are not with no children, we have single dads with kids and we would welcome a man with no children. This is a forum for all and we love hearing all sides and insights.