She's Totally Committed

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She's Totally Committed
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Thu, 03-23-2006 - 11:15am

To Major Independence, Yes she's a lady through and through...

that's right, last night, that was my theme song. R did end up showing up, and I played it cool. Seems that was smart, since he asked if he could walk me out when I announced it was time for me to leave. Ever the lady, I allowed him to, said my goodbye when I reached my car, and drove safely home.

Now, aren't ya'll proud of me? It took WILLPOWER, let me tell ya!


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Registered: 05-25-2004
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 11:44am
BRAVO!! That is so cool and so in control and so not desparate. We crown you princess! Keep us posted!! Love your lyrics!!
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Registered: 09-26-2005
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 12:05pm
Woo Hoo ! You go girl! I bet you left him thinking, trust me more moves like that and
he'll really be comming after you. Men love challenges, deep down inside they respect you
for it.
The T Girl
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Registered: 02-08-2006
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 1:43pm

Well, even if he didn't respect me, I respect myself... I left there KNOWING I was in charge of the situation, you know?

And, since his bandmate asked me to help them out with some band stuff and possibly sing a few songs, it looks like we'll be seeing each other a lot more, so I'm really enjoying this feeling of control I have over my life and my actions, even if I can't control my feelings.

Just because I WANT to do something doesn't mean I HAVE to. I can handle this. I can have self-control. I can.


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Registered: 04-17-2003
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 2:31pm
You did GREAT! I can't wait to hear how this plays out!!
Stephanie
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Registered: 01-30-2006
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 3:11pm

Glad to hear it went well and that you had a good time. If he calls great if not that's okay too. You have OLDguy to look forward to.

Isn't dating fun!!!!

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 4:02pm

Not only OLDGuy, but WorkGuy too. Dating is fun, if I could ever go on an actual date!

Speaking (er, typing) of WorkGuy, he's working his way up to asking me out, which is very nice, and since we work together, I can see both his interest and his hesitation. I also know how things worked out the one time I tried to move them along with R, so I'm just going to keep on keepin' on and let him move at his own pace, since we're also getting to know each other at a very even pace.

This could be fun. I have very casually mentioned to OLDGuy that tomorrow I'll be where I'll be, if he'd like to meet. Don't know if he'll take the bait, but I'll fill you all in if he does. Could be something, could be a bust, if nothing else, I'll finally (maybe) have MET someone new, at least.


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Registered: 08-20-2004
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 5:59pm

Woot! C'grads! Wear that crown proudly and keep those boys in line. They DO secretly like and respect a girl with confidence, self-control, and self-respect.

--snow

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 9:30pm

Sounds like you're having a great time and handling things really well- I'm proud of you!


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Fri, 03-24-2006 - 1:34pm

you go girl!!! I bet that took some willpower!!!

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 4:22pm
Honestly, you have NO idea. But, it did feel good. And, tonight's a whole new night!!

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